he is kinda cute and sweet but i dont like him. I noe he likes me cuz he always is flirtin w/ me and lookin at my chest and butt...everyone thinks we make a good couple but i just dont like him as he likes me. He understands me, he is always by my side but I DONT LIKE HIM!!! he is sooooo nice though and friendly but i dont like him....do u think is should go out with him or do u noe any nice ways to tell him i dont like him?
2007-01-15 04:27:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think dating him would be a mistake since you recognize that his is not the "man of your dreams." Rather keep him as a good and close friend. Tell him how much you value your friendship, which could give him a clue that you only want to be friends.
Listening to others that you make a "cute couple" is not the reason to date a person. Dating is to get to know a person with whom you hope may develop a romance and intimacy.
And has he asked you out on a date or is he just as interested as you are in a friend with whom you can share thoughts and ideas? Don't jump the gun because others pressure you. Good, close friends are hard to come by.
2007-01-15 04:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should never go out with someone that u arent interested in. my friend did that and it didnt turn out right the guy ended up hurt and now its a whole mess. and how are u sooo sure that he likes u i mean guys flirt a lot and love to look at girls boobs or butt so u cant be sure. but the bottom line is dont go out with someone becuase everyone says u guys make a good couple do it because u liek them. and to tell him just tell him nicely say that u arent interested and u just want to be friends but the thing is im not sure he lieks u maybe he jus tlikes to play around if u say that u just wnat to be friends it may be kinda embarresing since he mite not like u.! but just try to see if he does if he really does like u then tell him u just want to be friends nothing more. good luck!
2007-01-15 12:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't like him, just ignore him. He'll get over it, since he knows you don't like him.
But if there's even the slightest chance that he might turn out ok, why not give him a chance and go out with him? If it's a really bad date, it's only one evening lost for the sake of knowing there will never be anything between the two of you. On the other hand: if it's a good date, you might have found yourself a bf...
2007-01-15 13:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Guilty innocence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just take the easy way out instead of telling him and have feeling all weird towards each other just sleep with him. He will be gone in the morning never to be seen or heard of again. Thats tell 10 months go by and u send him to Maury. Good luck with that. Thats just what i would do!
2007-01-15 12:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if this boy is like fine gurl jump on that i am 14 and i kno how it feels 2 be rejected and get that feeling like what you are going through but if you don't like him thanstart the conversation off like "So you do you like at sckool" then be like i don't like anybody or whatever and hopefully he will get it. If not than what you should do is be like look bro i look at you as a brother and taht it and i want you too look at me as a little sis and go on from there. Hopefully that will work. I hope i help you Feel free to IM or E-mail me!
2007-01-15 12:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you treat him like a best buddy and brother. Emphasize that without needing to tell him directly that you don't like him so you won't hurt his feelings. I'm sure you enjoy his company to some extent to have him around so much anyway, so just find a way to remain good friends.
2007-01-15 12:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bomberman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him and you don't want to go out with him then don't. Don't go out with him just because everyone says you and him would make a good couple and they want you to but do it because you want to. Talk to him and tell him that you just don't like him that way. Be honest. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. He'll get over you. You have to be honest with him.
2007-01-15 12:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think you are making assumptions. He has not said that he likes you. I think you should just ignore him and he will get the message. Anyway even if he does like you, I think he deserves to go out with someone who likes him back.
2007-01-15 12:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by shgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your sending signals to him that you do like him, be straight up with him and tell him you don't like him in that kinda way, don't go out with him because everyone thinks you'll be a great couple. Than you'll have to figuare out how to break his heart.
2007-01-15 12:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you posted this before (it sounds quite familiar). No,don't go out with him...simply tell him you appreciate his interest but you don't feel the same way. You don't have to be ugly or unkind, but make sure he knows you're not diggin' him like he's digigin' you.
2007-01-15 12:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋