My Ex Girlfriend is with her Ex boyfriend that she was with before me(They got back together), but we're still close and we still talk to each other, I explained to her how I feel and that I still had feelings for her, I asked how does she feel about me and she replied, "I don't know, I'm in a relationship right now and I don't want to put myself in a situation were I could have feelings for the both of you". But she said she doesn't know, I know it doesn't mean yes she has feelings for me but it doesn't mean no either. I really Love this Girl alot and we've still remained close even after the break-up, and I really want to be with her, but I respect the fact that she has a man, but something in my heart is telling me that she still might have feelings for me, so would it be wrong to follow my heart and try and win her back(without crossing any lines) or should I go with my head and not do anything about the situation (This is someone I'm truly in love with)
2007-01-15 04:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be there for her as a friend when she's in a relationship and after. Don't try to break them up, but if she ever has problems with the boy she's with now, help hew withOUT trying to make her dump him. And if/when she does break it off, she will know that you are trustworthy and will always be there for her, and will want you back. The first step is to be her friend. And if things don't pan out with you and her, you will always have a friend, but she's not worth it to leave yourself unavailable for a very long time. Good luck!
2007-01-15 04:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to win her back, you are interfering with a choice that has already been made. You have already said your piece, you gave the ball to her, now it's in her court. She has made it clear that she is in a relationship & doesn't want the confusion, you should respect that. Also I have a saying - An Ex is an Ex for a reason!
2007-01-15 12:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by annette_642 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to still want your ex but, I'd say she has made her choice. She knows your interested and has said she isn't wanting to put herself in that situation. It's easier said than done, but move on. Keep the friendship open if it doesn't torment you being her friend, but step away from pursuing her.
2007-01-15 12:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by NICOLE L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do nothing. If she cares for u then she will come. My brother was in a similiar situation and his ex came back to him and left her current boyfriend.
2007-01-15 12:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run run run away from this indecisive shes playing games with you. keepingn you on the side just incase.
2007-01-15 12:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it wont help you....hang out with friends
2007-01-15 12:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋