i had sex with this guy for the first time who was not a virgin but i was a virgin. before we had even had sex, he knew that i was a virgin.
how come the first time we had sex together he didn't talk much at all, but was very gentle..but the second time we had sex together he physically helped me out, and was really caring, and constantly asked me if i was alright and told me to tell him when to stop. he treated the second time like my first time. is there anything wrong with this?
2007-01-15 04:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, there's nothing wrong. he just really cares bout u. a guy who doesnt care wouldnt ask u if ure alright of if u wanted him 2 stop. it's a good thing, dont worry about it. he just really cares about u, that's all.
2007-01-15 04:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with this at all. I give him credit for being so concerned about you. Who knows why things were so different the second time? To me, it's not an issue & be glad he was so caring.
2007-01-15 12:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because some guys are worried about doing it the first time to there girl even more when it is your first time and not his. The first time i did it the guy was very sweet and was always making sure that he hadn't hurt me and it was alot of fun.
2007-01-15 12:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by BSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the first time he wasn't in the mood or maybe because you gave him your virginity maybe he knew you really cared about him and thus he cared or loved you even more to be more concerned about you the second time.
2007-01-15 12:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not know how he was supposed to treat you the first time. Someone educated him so he did it the second time.
2007-01-15 12:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. These things happen and I wouldn't get yourself all worked up over it. It doesn't mean anything. Maybe he was just nervous the first time.
2007-01-15 12:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was nervous the first time, becaus it was your first time, maybe afterwards he realized what he should have done the first time then did it the second time to make up for the first
did you follow that
cuz I might have lost myself
2007-01-15 12:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just be happy you have a nice guy.
The first time he probaly just wanted to enjoy popping your cherry :)
2007-01-15 12:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotgman2z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably was taking the time to get to know your body.
2007-01-15 12:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Alina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-01-15 12:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋