Well my boyfriend is a great guy. He shows me that he cares for me and would not cheat on me. But I am a jealous person due to what I have been through in the past. I know that he would not cheat on me but I still get mad at him for talking to other girls. I know it's dumb of me but I just cannot help how I feel, and when I talk to him I cannot act as of nothing is bothering me so I end up telling him. I know it's stupid.. because when he is out with his friends and I know that he is with them, I make it seem that I think he was with another girl.. but then I tell him that I believe him and that I recognize that I am actting retarded.. I just can't help it!!! What do you guys think???? Will ge get tired?
2007-01-15 04:19:15 · 17 answers · asked by Hmmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he will! You need to start trusting him! A relationship cannot work if there isn't trust. If you know that he would not cheat on you, then why stress it? Why make a big deal out of it? You need to relax and just live life. If he is with you and does things to prove to you that he cares about you, then why are you causing problems amongst you guys. If in fact, he does ever cheat on you, you should just be strong and move on... but he's good to you, what more do you want from him? Just trust, and if the person is not worth your trust.. in the end you'll be the last to laugh.. but for now, give the dude a break!
*Life is too short to be unhappy*
Good Luck Girlie!!!
2007-01-15 04:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely. guys like girls with confidence. I mean theres a boundary between talking to a girl and being all up in her area. Talking has never been a sin. Its good that your expressing your feelings, but this dude will eventually get tired of your insecurities. you have to remind yourself that all guys arent the same. next time just suck it up the feeling to say anything. If he's being PG there is no reason to nag him about it.
2007-01-15 04:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by santichilebabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think he WILL get tired of your trust issues with him.
You are pushing him away with your insecurities.
And I think eventually, the relationship will be over.
Don't worry!! Trust him!! Don't let something like this ruin what you have with this guy. You will regret it later.
My boyfriend's friends are mostly girls. I've known this for over 2 years now. I completely trust him. I know he won't do anything to ruin what we have. Trust is NECESSARY for a lasting relationship.
2007-01-15 04:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will. He may decide that since he will be accused of doing it anyway he might as well do it. Or he just may find someone who deserves his love and loyalty.
2007-01-15 04:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without a doubt he will get VERY tired of it, how soon is anyones guess
2007-01-15 04:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by brazenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's smart he will. You are half way to solving the problem; you admit it. Now, get some professional counselling to deal with it.
2007-01-15 04:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only will he get tired of it, he's likely get the attitude " if I'm accused of it I may as well do the deed"
2007-01-15 04:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by mfc795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing your best and you are being honest with him
about your insecurities so if he loves you he will probably
put up with it for quite a while..
2007-01-15 04:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be tired of it too. Grow up.
2007-01-15 04:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will get tired you need to sort your head out
2007-01-15 04:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Starkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋