I saw a message in his phone callin his ex baby and he saw how i responded and told me there is nothing i should worry about cause he is with me, but then last night while he was at his friends house talking to the girl his friend called me but my boyfriend didn't know i was talkin to his friend and i heard him call his ex baby which is what he calls me. and i could see why he would cheat i mean i am not giving him any not even a kiss yet and she will give up everything so wat am i to think?
2007-01-15 04:08:56 · 18 answers · asked by Claire321614 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like him and he is just about perfect in every other way so should i trust him when he says there is nothing i should worry about or not?
2007-01-15 04:15:11 · update #1
His friend is the one who hooked us up so we were already good friends.Him and his ex are still friends because they only went out for less then a week and we all go to the same school and me and him are basketball players and she is a cheerleader so i know they still talk to each other and he can't remember her name a lot of the time so should i be worried?
2007-01-15 10:04:30 · update #2
I call people "sweetie" because I don't know their names and or don't want to call the wrong name to the wrong one. So which is it with him. You caught him. You know it. At what point will you decide that he lacks committment to you. Do you need to catch him kissing her before you decided? Do you need to catch him taking her to dinner? Do you need to catch him taking her to bed or in bed? What?
Find a fella that is worthy of your love and loyality. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-15 04:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be cheating on you if you're not playing the game yet.
Here's your first clue that you're really just interested in his friend: You made a point of mentioning that you were talking to his friend. What the hell are you doing talking to his friend?
Here's the second clue you're really looking for a bad excuse to get out of it:
You haven't even offered the goods! Really, seriously, you have no relationship with someone as long as you're not willing to be intimate. I know people will tell you to wait for the right time and right occasion, or until you get bunked up in college, but these same people will also tell you NOT TO GET INVOLVED SO YOUNG! Intimacy is all a part of a maturing relationship, and if you don't have it, you DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP!!!
Here's the third and final clue:
You have shown ZERO real interest in the guy other than to trap and possess someone, most likely based on popularity. Let this one go, please. You will be doing him and yourself a huge favor.
And for God's sake, go hook up with his friend. It's obvious you have the hots for him.
If you want to know more, read my column in February's issue of Esquire.
Hope it helps!
2007-01-15 12:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be clever about it . Think about whats going on and what ways you can find out the truth . Id think of it as a game i no its nothing like that and seriouse because you dont want him to have cheated on you . But dont let it wind you up he could be but then think he might not be so you never no . Look down his phone send this girl a jeraral text . see what happens . i no people might think this is wrong but at least if you find out the truth u wont need to wrorry any more .
2007-01-15 12:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by hayliielouiise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u really move on. hes got no business calling his ex his baby and if u think hes gonna cheat on u cuz u havent even given him a kiss, then what the hell is the point of being with someone that wont respect u for who u are and that u cant trust??? ur probably still young, so i say u move on and let him be with his ex-baby. u deserve better.
2007-01-15 12:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by oc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is way too short to waste your time on a guy such as you described. Time to kick him to the curb & move on. If she's the ex, then why is he still in touch with her? The writing is on the wall plain & simple. This guy wants his cake & eat it too. Don't be a doormat.
2007-01-15 12:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you aint givin' up the poonanny and she is, who do you think he's going to call his BABY? NEVER trust ANY man because they will cheat on your @ss and leave you crying the blues. Your guy is no exception to the rule!
2007-01-15 12:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Worry.
2007-01-15 12:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his ex-girlfriend and ask her. Don't be mean, just ask her. He's probably doing her already anyways. You could also be really mean and just do one of his friends. That'll teach him
2007-01-15 12:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To you and all the other 1000s people who question what to do when they are in a bad relationship...MOVE ON. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2007-01-15 12:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like theres still chemistry between your bf and his ex give him fifty feet girl because your still young
2007-01-15 12:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋