My son recently moved in with his girlfriend. They are both 18 years old. My son said he isnt happy there but feels like he needs to be there to protect his girl friend from her brother. She told my son that her brother has beed rapeing her for a while now and she is afraid to tell her mother. She also said that he has also raped her sister. I dont know if she is lieing just to keep him there with her or if she is telling the truth. The brother is married and has a little boy age 2 and he has a baby girl on the way. We told our son that if someone dostnt say anything that he is going to do the same thing to his own daughter. I am worried for my son and I have told him to come home and we will find a way to help the family but he wont. His girlfriends mother has confronted his girlfriend before asking her if her brother has dont anything to her and she told her mother NO that he has never hurt her. Thats why I think she is lieing, either that of she is afraid to tell her mother.
2007-01-15 04:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We have talked to our son and told him to tell the mother. His girlfriend is now angry at him for telling us. She said that she cant trust him so thats another reason I think she is lieing but its hard to tell. We also think that the family is illegal and thats why I think if it is true thats why she is afraid to tell. My son is not illegal.
2007-01-15 04:31:38 · update #1
Now that your son is 18, there is not much you can do other than let him know you are concerned. Pull back and let him make his own choices. If you are giving him any financial assistance, stop doing so!
Whether or not the girl's story is true, she would definitely benefit from counseling!
2007-01-15 04:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is old enough to be an adult. You don't need to worry about this. As a parent, however, I can understand you love your children forever. You have to go to the police. The police will talk to your sons girlfriend about this. Good luck
2007-01-15 04:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 04:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is in over his head... Tell him that she needs to tell someone or those babies will be violated soon to... If he is a halfway good hearted person he won't care about hurting the girl but saving the kids
2007-01-15 04:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His girlfriend is probley scared to tell. Why would the mother ask her daughter unless she suspected something was wrong? His girlfriend needs to tell because he will just abuse someone else. Your son does not need to be living their just to protect her, If he wants to protect her he needs to tell her mom.
2007-01-15 04:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by little lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. that is a tough situation. your son either needs to get his girlfriend in counselling to deal with the issues or make some serious decisions.
2007-01-15 04:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is lying to keep your son by her side. Have him come home!Have her report it to the police, either you take her or you and your son drive her to the police station or make the call to the police yourselves.
2007-01-15 04:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk to yr son one to one. Ask yr hubby to talk too. let yr son understand how much u do care and love him too.
2007-01-15 04:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kinda have had this same problem but i would just let him do what he wants to do it is his life if you are worried about him and her then just call him and ask him what is going on and how he is doing well hope i helped
2007-01-15 04:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by lil kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she is lying about it. Try asking the girl herself if this is true.
2007-01-15 04:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋