I read in almost every guys singles profile that he is looking to at least make friends. I have met alot of guys that I had an enjoyable date with and they seemed to enjoy themselves too but then I never here back from them. Another guy I went out with a few times and we emailed every day then he stopped writting. I can understand I may not be the one for them, but what happened to them wanting to be friends? I would like to at least think that if we didn't hit it off romantically that we could at least keep in touch and chat occasionally. It is kind of odd to chat with someone for weeks and get to know each other and then after the first date, you never here from them again. Just because there wasn't any chemisty on the first date, why doesn't a guy wanted to just keep in touch anymore? Most of these guys are still online so I know they haven't met the one yet anyway.
2007-01-15 03:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In an ideal world, yeah that might actually work. But life just doesn't work that way, and it sucks. I guess if some guys can't have you romantically and or sexually, they would rather not have you at all. Think about it this way, if yall got romatically involved and broke up, then you wouldn't be "just friends." Don't waste your time with those people, they are obviously not wasting theirs. If they are the right person they would be at least friends with you. If they would make a good friend, you would know.
2007-01-15 04:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Annoy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be friends? These men are looking for a romantic partner, a mate, a girlfriend, a wife. People don't have a lot of time to spend developing friendships with girls. Besides, if they do meet a romantic partner, how much time will he have to give to a girl he barely got to be friends with? What new girlfriend is going to appreciate him keeping "friendships" going with girls he dated but didn't click with? There's no point taking it any further because they also might fear you'll "want more" or that you'll mistake a friendship for "being more."
2007-01-15 12:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may say he's looking for at least friends, but a guy with an online profile is on the hunt for a girlfriend and if you're not it, then he's not going to want to spend a lot of time with you when he could be out with other girls who could be this girlfriend he seeks.
2007-01-15 12:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by graybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because we really don't want to be friends. We are just saying that to get your defenses down so that you open up to us. We don't want to waste time on a girl who is only going to be my friend, when I'm really looking for someone I can date. Think about it. Are you going to spend time with your friend, or your boyfriend? In my experience, the girl always chooses her boyfriend. So why would a guy be any different?
2007-01-15 12:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by bo, kingpin at large 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
guys are more romantic than you think. to them the main concern is
" is she desirable romantically or not " if she is not they easily lose interest in girls.
they are in a sense obsessed with romance or sex.
but happily enough not all guys do like this . but rare .
you had better be more desirable even to keep in touch with these maniacs called boys.
2007-01-15 12:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋