2007-01-15 03:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by cavalier_137 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
And how would you know that her friends got her into it?
2007-01-15 04:10:22 · update #1
Madam / Sir ,
what you need to do is confront her friends parents and tell them what you have found about your daughter, its obvious that someone had introduced her the drugs. please don't be ashamed to talk with family members and the parents of your daughters friends especially.
than this might sound very harsh and bad, but you need to slap her, and tell her its not right think to be doing. than take her to see people who are under going drug rehabilitation. seeing there pathetic conditions, it might bring some sense into her mind.
do ask her if she had experimented with drugs, get the kick for the first time, most teenagers get hooked this way. cause they say only once i promise.
and do understand grounding her inside her room alone is also not the solution, lastly if there is a problem in the family i.e., husband and wife, this could very well be the initial cause for your daughters action.
hope it will help you and your daughter.
2007-01-15 04:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor if there is a rehab or convalescence center to take her to and show her what she is risking to be cool.
Teenagers are more likely to listen to their friends than their parents when 'cool' is in the equation.
Other that sending her to a nunnery or moving to a neighborhood that does not have any drug problem (write to me and I'll be there soon), you have to demonstrate the risks she is taking.
Perhaps there is a speaker who you can help arrange to speak to all students at her school.
I don't think you can make her change her friends but see what you can do with out throwing a fit and convincing her she's on the right track if your so upset.
There is military school.
2007-01-15 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try confronting her and if she denies doing any drugs, get a second drug test to absolutely confirm that the first one had a correct result. That's about all I can say. Good luck. Hope that helped.
2007-01-15 12:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ghandric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her calmly. Try to just listen- no judgments. It is more important for you to hear her than her to hear you- since she already knows how you feel. You can also seek the advice of professionals. It is more important for her to feel loved for who she is than to feel condemned for what she has done. While taking drugs may not be acceptable for your family, she is still accepted. Otherwise she will run right to where she feels love and accepted. It is very important for you to get professional advice from someone in the drug field as to how you can help with your behaviors. I am sorry for what you are going through
2007-01-15 12:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rehab
2007-01-15 12:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn her into the jail
my parents did that and they saved me from drugs down the road
all rehab is is people b!tching about how hard it is 2 quit while smoking a joint (i may be exagerating but thats about how it goes)
2007-01-15 13:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and find out whats going on what kind of drugs is she using, she needs to feel that she can come to you for anything i would seek help also you cant be to safe you know
2007-01-15 12:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by jen92078 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm i kno her friends got her involved so you might want to change the people she hangs around with!
2007-01-15 12:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and find out what is going on. if she doesn't want to talk, seek outside help
2007-01-15 11:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by blyng1225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLap her butt into rehab.
2007-01-16 00:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by kaisergirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋