see i went out with him last month, and everything went great. we hit if off really good. but he's moving away and i kinda really like him. i don't want him to move. But then here come's the complicated part. His ex is pregnet and well he's moving back so they can patch things up. But she already made it clear that she doesn't want him. so i really don't know what i should do.
should i step aside and let him go?
should i try to tell him what i feel?
i'm so confused right now....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 03:50:22 · 29 answers · asked by sweetmeansour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do yourslef a BIGGGG favor and let this guy move on with his complicated life and see what happens. At the same time, you move on with yours and find someone with less complications. In the future, if he really likes you, and if the other situation doesn't work out, he can contact you and take it from there. But he needs time to sort out his feelings. If he didn't still care for her, I guarantee you that her being pregnant when she doesn't want him, would not bring him back to her. He must still care and needs to sort through that. Don't put your life on hold while all this is going on because it is a waste of your precious time. Sometimes the timing is just not right with people and there is nothing you can do about it, but let time go by and see what happens. Just don't put yourself on the shelf in the meantime and pass up someone else that could be a lot more available and with less complications (not to mention child support for the next 18-22 years - yikes!).
2007-01-15 03:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Regardless of whether his ex wants him or not, HE wants HER. Maybe he made all these plans to go back to her before he met you, but obviously you didn't change his mind. Even if things don't work out with them, he needs to sort out his feelings for her and he's going to be a dad and there is just so much complicated stuff that will take a while to get sorted out. You're not that deep into it (you said you went out once), so I would definitely just step back and save yourself and your feelings for someone else.
2007-01-15 03:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him do what he wants. He will only hate you for trying to stop him. Let him know that you are there for him if he needs you and support him in trying to do the right thing for his baby. If she really doesn't want him he will realize it and you will come out looking like the best woman. Make sure to keep in contact with him and always ask how the baby is. He obviously cares about his baby which is good.
2007-01-15 03:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to buck up and tell him how you feel or you will forever more regret it. He sounds like a really good guy for taking care of his responsiblities. And if she doesn't want him then you got the thumbs up. He sounds like a good catch and I wouldn't let that slip through my fingers. CALL HIM!!!!
However, and this is a big however I would be careful. If this is going to be his kid it will be hard to start a relationship with someone who is bringing new life into this world. But its a risk i would take so I say call him!
2007-01-15 03:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? genuine love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it relatively is devoted and not common paintings. you are able to desire to work out this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you are able to desire to no longer additionally be pondering a intense relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have enjoyable, do no longer grow to be overly invested throughout the time of this, WHAT? you won't be in a position to flirt? flow on, the writing is on the wall and it spells situation. Do your self a desire and decrease the guy unfastened, regardless of if it is destined to be, it relatively is going to run it relatively is course and he would be back. yet why you are able to take him back purely you are able to answer.
2016-12-13 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by barrecchia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, if he is trustworthy he should understand. You are in a bad situation but make the best of it. Don't just let him go, he'll be miserable and so will you. HIs ex doesn't want him so you safe there.
2007-01-15 03:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by itchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a big mess.........one you would be better off staying away from!
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2007-01-15 03:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go and don't think about him, until his own situation with his ex and the baby is resolved. You don't want to get mixed up in their lives right now, cause it will just get messy.
2007-01-15 03:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move yet oh my goodness you hardly know him what about your life come on its only a guy..plus he has more important issue to deal with like a new born that is way more important than you...so you should be way more important to yourself
step aside like ten miles keep far away babys bring emotions no one can ever predict so stay away i have seen it...
2007-01-15 03:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what he feels he needs to do, you need to let him go and cut all ties. But before you do, let him know that you do care and if things don't work out, you would like to see him again.
2007-01-15 03:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋