left she would listen to that song "Goodnight Sweetheart" by David Kearsh and cry. This is the same woman that leaves with another man without telling anyone and calls a few days later to tell us she left and to tell my father that he could have the house and the kids and everything. That is a little messed up to me. Don't you think that if it hurt her that bad, she never would have left?
2007-01-15 03:28:04 · 8 answers · asked by Billys girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she left b/c she wanted to that does not mean to say it was easy for her...try talking to her
2007-01-15 03:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left because she felt like she had to, for her own happiness. It isn't because she didn't love her kids, but maybe deep down she knew in the end that you and your siblings were better off without her in your life. Count your blessings. If she had of stayed, things could potentially have turned into abuse and maybe she knew that and got out before turning her pain onto her children. There's always more than meets the eye, so maybe you should sit and have a heart to heart. You might be surprised at the "real" reason behind her leaving.
2007-01-15 04:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think she would never have left a second time if it hurt her that bad the first time. Back in 87 I left my two children for eight months. Those eight months were very hard. I was so happy when I was able to go and get them. They are grown now and married. We all live in the same city. In fact, I am living with my daughter,son-in-law, and grandchildren. Even though it has been years since I left them and it has been years that we have been reunited; what I did still hurts me very much.
2007-01-16 05:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants something leave her alone for a while if she still is trying to make up for her mistake then she Will keep trying to get with you and your siblings but don't give her nothing on a silver platter let her do that for you. But she still deserves respect and may need a little of that respect as a woman and not a mother and maybe work into that relationship
2007-01-15 03:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, initially, you be responsive to that what she's announcing is entire BS. From her description, she had a dermoid cyst--that's an ovarian cyst it is crammed with hair and tooth and such. not something to do with being pregnant or miscarriage. 2d a 9 year previous could not reason a miscarriage--nor would desire to a 14 year previous. considering time immemorial, there have been women who've wanted to end their pregnancies, and there have been adult men have wanted to end women's pregnancies, and between the supervisor techniques they have tried to do it is blows to the tummy. they don't paintings. Grown adult men have achieved it and it hasn't worked. 2d, it feels like dementia. that's oftentimes stressful for a guy or woman to understand while yet somebody else is going loopy. what's got here relating to that's that the sister-in-regulation you knew is long gone. and he or she is not coming returned. Her strategies has exchange into diseased and says issues that the guy you knew could never say or do or think of. If the guy you knew, knew that she exchange into announcing issues like that, she'd be humiliated and embarrassed and very much bowled over and horrified. attempt to remember her the way she exchange into. Her family members--little ones, etc., are those answerable for her. they'd desire to be alerted to her psychological issues.
2016-10-20 05:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes and/or poor choices at times. Perhaps she related to this song and began to feel some remorse for her actions. I haven't any idea of what was going through her mind. If you and your siblings do want to start a relationship with this woman again I would suggest that you take your time and do so slowly as she may end up breaking your heart again. Best of luck.
2007-01-15 03:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry that you did not have a mom during those crazy years, but you sound like you made it through very well, you must have a terrific Dad. How a mother could leave her kids I will never understand as nothing in this world could take me from mine except death. Talk with your mom for what she has done there is no excuse except selfishness. Take Care =)
2007-01-15 03:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was an idiot that got swept away by another man. After she had time to think about it, she realized what an idiot she was.
Your family needs to take time to consider whether or not you want to include this person again. Maybe she'll think twice before she leaves again. Then again, maybe it's a load of manure to try to appease her guilty feelings.
2007-01-15 03:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋