I'm a 26 year old, single, white female and I'm interested in dating an Africian American male. I need help...
2007-01-15 03:25:36 · 13 answers · asked by confused2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably want to find out if he dates White women. Some African American men do and some don't. If he does date White women, then you have to find a way to let him know that you are interested in him.
You see, some African American men who date interracial may be nervous about approaching White women unless they are sure that she dates interracial.
I suppose that you could get his attention the same way you would any man, and then try to find out if he dates White women and if he is interested in dating you specifically.
You might want to do some research on the Internet on interracial dating (specifically Black men and White women) to see if you could get some ideas there. Keep in mind some of the information that you get on the Internet might not be very helpful, but some of the information may be of help to you.
One thing that might be a turn off for some African American men, is a White woman who dates him just to experiment, so to speak. Some White women will date African American men just for the experience of doing so. In other words, she is just attracted to the man because he is Black and not because she really likes him. The Black man for her is just a symbol of forbidden fruit or something taboo, which can be sexually exciting.
I'm not saying you are like that, but I know some White women who are.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-15 03:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, learn to cook. The quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Most black males enjoy a good home cooked meal. Just like what their mother's cook for Sunday dinner. Find out his favorite dinner and cook it. Make sure it's well seasoned!
2007-01-15 03:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nique T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The same way that you get a "white" mans attention. Stupid question. A person is a person is a person. Black, white or purple. jus treat him the way you would anybody else.
2007-01-15 03:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Voyager01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a bi racial son and I acted the same way around black men as I did white. There all men..They all like attention..So just be yourself and give him alittle extra attention...Good luck
2007-01-15 03:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always date blk guys and I have noticed they love latina girls mostly or anyone with a curveous body that loves to show it off. If you know how to dance and shake what your momma gave ya then you have a better chance as well. So if you don't know how to shake it, it wouldn't hurt to take some lessons or dance with him.
2007-01-15 03:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you get any other person's attention of any race. Everyone is the same on the inside.
2007-01-15 03:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol be yourself. DOn't start acting black and end up making a fool out of you self, just start socializing and flirty a little with those negroes you like lol I know I love mine.
2007-01-15 03:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are men. It doesn't matter what the race is. Use your flirting powers, let him know that you like him using physical or verbal cues...He'll get the hint that it's on!
2007-01-15 03:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet people that are african americans then from there, you will meet one of them.
2007-01-15 03:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..go find one? you act like you have to do something different because he's black. they're not a different species.
2007-01-15 03:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋