how can i make me confident?

Answer 1

Shed low esteem about yourself. Never be over awed by other so called achievers. What they have achieved is achievable in your own field. What one fool can do, other can. It requires a lot of determination and perseverance.

Answer 2

hi Kalyani,
u are already confident Kalyani else u would not ask this question. Becoz unless u have the confidence that yes i would get good answers u wouldnt have asked us. Isnt'it?

oh! ur job is more easier than me!!!
I mean Making oneself confident is more easy than making other person confident.
This can help u...
Anyways, answer these questions:
1.Why do u think u are not confident?
2. What are ur + points?
3. In what way are u different from others?
4. Recollect the situations where u have acted smart and intelligent.
5. What are the situations which make u feel less-confident?

Thats enough for now!!!!!!!!!
Always believe that u r the best. U should also upright ur face and body language like that. Think always properly(positively). Speak less and think more. Always Think before acting.
Practice these for 2 months. see the change. Every day every minute feel that HUM KISSISE KAM NAHIN.
See the change for ur self. Believe in ur self Kalyani

All the best.

Answer 3

see confidence is there in every human being all u have to do is find it and increase it but take care that u dont become over confident. first thing to do is always think positive and tell ur self that what ever u are doing is right and will result in right thing. secondly speak to maximum number of people that u can this increase the confidence level in u. thirdly try to do meditation two times a day for 10-15 min only this will give u gud result and if u are shy then shed away ur shyness . just feel that u are suprem in this world and u always do right things. and if u some time do wrong them say this thing to ur self- ""(gud judgement comes from experience and experience comes from BAD judgement)"" . so if u do some thing bad just think that it has added to ur experience .see this is the way to think positive. try it out u will find the change.

Answer 4

1. Start with your looks, first thing some one sees.

2. Know what you are doing, at office take time to get organise, some says do you have pen you should open a drawer take a pen and a wink of an eye give it to them. I hope you get my pint. know where every things are, put it there in the first place do not keep changing the place this way you will find it, if rest of the office is in disarray volunteer to fix it up talk to the boss and request permission to do it for him/her come an hour or two early and go late and do it. Then every morning for few days come few minute early and put things where they should be this way in a month you will not have to do it at all.

3. Know your subject of experties, if you do not know say you need to look it up then look it up.

4. To do above you need to know the references, where they are keept, how to use them.....learn this on your time or time permiting. Makre people come to you for such thing let boss know that you do not mind helping and make sure he/she can spare you and does not mind, if he says you hould be doing more important thing do not give mouth, say sorry and follow the instruction.

5. Let common sense prevail.

6. All this can be applied to home and extra activities also you will have more time on hand and you will be efficient enough to get cinfident.

7. Learn to alocate time then try and meet the goals.

Answer 5

first point to be confident is to have faith on urself. Try to do all ur daily activiteis urself, by this u'll gain confidence that u can do things. Try to do all ur required work, like applying for passport, applying for any exam(form fillup, attesttation ,applying etc) ur own.try to solve ur small problems urself,like some problem in ur office work, first try, and after that if u are not succeeded then take the help of ur near one. Try to be positive in all ur aspect, that u can do all the things in ur own way. try to make friends, try to interact more with people.be bold & be positive that's all for confident personality, and also try to get out of all ur worries, be happy & make others also happy.

Answer 6

Kalyani, always trust in God. never do anything wrong with other even with unknowns. Try to be polite. Be a true Indian girl. I assure you with my experience you will be confident and never be over confident. I have a logic for this. As you have not done anything wrong with anyone. Everybody will be your friend. U will be liked by all. Moreover your inner conscious will say ' I HAVE NOT DONE ANY HARM TO ANYONE" My Lord ......(Krishna in my case) loves me as he loves the persons who love human beings. So he is always with me at every step of my life and HE will not let me suffer with anything in this world.

May my Krishna boon you with this trust, which U may say confident.

Answer 7

if you want to be confident first of all you should try to remove your hesitation and then wherever you feel less confident wether between freinds or among peoples or with strangers try to think that you are the best in all and they all are week.and the last thing try to speak before mirror three times in a day with different faces .best of luck my dear

Answer 8

Do something interesting, get into sports or play an instrument. I play 3 instruments and I take dance and I have lots of confidence. Trust me, it works.

Answer 9

Well the first thing you can do is:
Help your selfasteem you can do this byw hanging little posters on the wall saying for exapmple: I am Great. You also need to get out of the house ang with your friends.

Answer 10

never put yourself down.you are the only fan of yourself,there might be people who are a lot more good looking than you, but the moment they stop breathing they all go down to the same place like you will, and they will decompose just like you will.always think positive,nobody is the best in this world unless you claim to be the best there is and the best there was,