2007-01-15 03:11:31 · 54 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope. youre hot.
2007-01-15 03:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did regret it for awhile after me and the guy had broken up, but when I look back on it almost 3 years ago, I see it as a learning experience. If you feel or felt like it was the right time then there's no reason to beat yourself up about it. Everything happens for a reason and in the future, it'll just be another thing you learned as you grew up.
2007-01-15 03:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...I was relieved that I could finally say, in the words of Garth, "I am no longer a stranger to the ways of the woman." I don't necessarily regret losing my virginity at that drunken night in College, but I do regret that I lost it to that certain person rather than someone who wouldn't have cheated on me....
2007-01-15 03:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Its depend on which guy or time. I was glad that i lost it because it helped me how to learn with next guy, like not shy or know what to do without any mistakes. Also I did regret to lost it by wrong guy because of rumors, etc. It was horror but hey everything were in the past and new guy doesnt care about past, as long its present and future.
2007-01-15 03:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited til i was old enough. I was 21yrs old and when i made that decision i made with a sound mind. if i had done it in high school i'd have regreted it. But when i decided to do i had done it knowing where my emotions stood and knowing how i felt about the guy. i guess i played everthing out like if all he wanted to hit, would i be ok emotionaly etc. And i was fine we dated for like 3 yrs before i decided to do it. and he never pressured me. after the first time i was like whats the hype, so i didn't have sex for like another year. so it's up to you and when you do it. do it because you feel ready not cuz everyone is doing it. its your body at the end of the day and your emotions. girls are emotionally connected when it comes to sex. and we hurt easily emotionally when rejected after giving it up. so think about it. the best is to wait though!!
2007-01-15 04:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by africangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm saving myself for marriage.
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-15 03:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes I do. I was eight the first time and it was with the babysitter, after wards she treated me like a little boy (of course I was). I think that it has always effected my relationships since then. I don't mean to say I did not like it and I even wanted to do it more with her, but it made things seem to be what I believed as a depressing thing instead of the beauty I now know it to be. I know why they have age limits on things now as I had no idea what I was doing or how it would effect me for the rest of my life.
2007-01-15 03:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 and lucky I didn't get preg or an STD, and wasn't really crazy about the guy (just reacting to hormones)...wasn't a grand experience at all...not a regret, but I'd do it differently (hopefully better) if I had it to do again...
2007-01-15 03:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do.
The guy was a less than optimal selection (I thought I was "in love). Now I wish it had been someone better suited for me.
I'm over it though; if you are in this situation think it through carefully cause I didn't and I regretted it for some time.
2007-01-15 03:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dana Katherine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. We didn't talk about it much and i did it because i thought i "should". The second man i slept with we were in love, together for over a year and he was a virgin as well. I wish more than anything he had been my first, it would have been special, not the "wham, bam, thank you mam" i got...
2007-01-15 03:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret it now, but the night it happened I was so scared that I didn't feel anything and then ran all the way home for a mile and a half! laughs -
2007-01-15 03:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by All hat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋