2007-01-15 03:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by gily_2012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are ways of doing it, use what I call confident pills (there not really pills) it is a sort of hypnotic method. now first relax, breath in and Imagen yourself as tall as a building, now Imagen the guy your next to, him just flirting with him, now take a large breath and Imagen yourself as a regular size next to your large self. now throw the large image on top of you old self and tada. confidence!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 03:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Unblack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be so shy when I was younger that I can remember always walking around and looking down at the ground and never into someone's face! How I got over that ane eventually ending up married is by first coming out of my shell. First, I started talking to guys like in school and in my class. I would talk about upcoming tests, or events at school. So you have to talk to guys, because sometimes they are just as shy as you but they tend to act macho and hide their shyness. Then you have to go out to a group outing like a party or a school dance where there will be mixed sexes. Be social and I am sure someone will ask you to dance or show interest in you. Now as for the guy you like, what I would do is ask him if he's ever heard of a particular mall, club, 'chill spot' and ask him if he's ever been. If he say's no then say, Well I think I'll go there one day. Maybe I'll see you there. And then I would leave him wondering if I like him and if he should come to that place. It shows that you are interested but it forces the next move on the guy. Either he will show a little more interest in you or at worst he'll be stupid and keep wondering if you like him or not. What you don't want to do is stay in his face constantly especially when you are unsure if he likes you or not. Guys hate that! They pretend to enjoy girls drooling all over them but they get 'joked' (ridiculed) for it by other guys. Hope this helps! Sorry it is so long...
2007-01-15 11:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nique T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but it might help to think of a conversation topic beforehand- that way you know you won't babbling on about the weather! Or try and spend as much time around him, it will become more natural and easier after a while. Be patient, some guys might even find your shyness to be an endearing quality
2007-01-15 11:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get a while to get off the shy. Try get know him more, once you feel comfort with him, for sure you won't be shy around with him anymore. YOu need to try your best to get know him MORE, let him know you too. It will work, trust me. IT wont work if you are still shy and not get know him. If you already know him well and still shy, then be tough and try cover it and show him how much you are real.
2007-01-15 11:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry- the most confident people are actually pretty shy- they've just learnt to hide it!
The first step is just forcing yourself to go out, talk to people and make eye contact...before you know it you'll only remember you're shy when you get home- good luck!
2007-01-15 11:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy..
im realli shy too. or used to be
just act like the guys lucky to be talking to you.not the other way around!
2007-01-15 11:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by HOTCHOC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pretend that ur not shy...just be random, but not like really obnoxious and smile a lot and stuff like that
2007-01-15 11:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by hershykiss8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont learn.....thats part of the appeal.
2007-01-15 11:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself and thats about. remember at one time he must of like craped his pants or something
2007-01-15 11:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can practice on me.
2007-01-15 11:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by John Rambo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋