We have discussed this for several days. He wants me to shave all of my pubic hair off, totally. Has anyone else done this and what do you think about it?
2007-01-15 02:56:02 · 41 answers · asked by Shanti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The decision to do this, obviously, is a personal one. nature placed hair there for a reason. It provides lubrication for friction etc. Some however, find that a totally bare region there provides a better sensation for oral activity. As long as you and your partner agree on whatever you decide, it should not be a situation where one pressures the other to do something reluctantly.
2007-01-15 03:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have done this. Wow, that felt a little forward..
He can ask, but ultimately it is your choice. Don't do anything for someone you ae not willing to do for yourself.
*ahem* To be a little blunt, consider that you will have to "keep up" with the shaving. ..and you can't wax the area.. underneath. You can't use Nair or anything like that either as it is too close to yur most intimate areas and would likely cause serious irritation.
You will need to start with scissors the first time, then you will need to use a razor. Very carefully until you are used to it. It is something that has to be kept up just like your legs. Be forewarned: it is a little uncomfortable when it startes to grow back in, and you can't shave too often or you will agitate your skin. Two times a week is probably the best unless your hair grows very quickly.
I hope he is asking you this because he plans to "reward" you for doing so. On a regular basis. It should not be just for him. Don't do it if you do not want to do it.
I don't know if I'm getting my points across, but I don't want to be any more specific in this forum.
2007-01-15 03:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it if you are comfortable and want to see what it's like. Don't do it just for him.
As far as who's done it, a lot of us have done it. Some get it waxed completely off from front to back. Some leave just a little "landing strip" of hair. It's all in what you are comfortable with.
If you do decide to do it, make sure you are using a new razor (don't want razor burn down there) and be careful and take your time (don't want to cut yourself either). And keep in mind it'll be smooth for a day or two but will itch like crazy when it grows back.
And DON'T use hair removal products down there, it'll burn your sensitive skin. The only good ways of getting rid of hair down there are shaving and waxing. Good luck.
2007-01-15 03:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not shave as it will be horribly itchy and even painful growing out. Your clothes will irritate it, your legs will chaf rubbing it. Just don't do it! If you want to try having it waxed off, be sure and let a professional do it. You could burn and/or hurt yourself trying to wax yourself or letting it be done at home. When it is done professionally, it will still hurt having it done because they will be jerking the hair out by the roots, but it will grow in without the stubble of shaving, and it will take longer to grow in. If your boyfried is so into wanting you 'without' then he shouldn't have a problem paying for you to have it done professionally. Also, tell him you want him to have his waxed off also, and see what he says. If he's not willing to do it for you, WHY SHOULD YOU DO IT FOR HIM????
2007-01-15 03:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of what anyone else here is comfortable with, or what your boyfriend wants. This is your decision about your body. Do not allow yourself to be pressured or cajoled into doing anything that you are unsure of or are uncomfortable with. He should love you just the way you are. If he doesn't, then you may want to reconsider and evaluate the state of the relationship and whether or not it is healthy physically, emotionally, socially, and sexually.
Truly, if you are uncomfortable shaving, then you need to discuss with him why he wants you to do it and why you are uncomfortable with it. He needs to hear it from you. And he needs to listen to you. It's your body. Yours.
2007-01-15 03:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by LovrsDrmrsnMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a short landing strip to totally shaved - it's just to difficult to get really close in several areas and sandpaper is just not a good idea.
2007-01-15 03:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels allot better then having hair down there.. you should do it, make sure you use moisturizing lotion afterwords for the razor burn and itching, your first time shaving your gonna be itchy but after that you'll really enjoy the feel of no hair :) :) :)
2007-01-15 03:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself don't think there is anything wrong with it.I shave and to me I like it I feel cleaner.You have nothing to lose if you don't like it it will grow back.It is all a matter of personal choice.And if you think about it,It is actually natural I mean think about it you were'nt born with any hair there.
2007-01-15 03:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive done it. Its nice and easy and very hot! My bf LOVES IT!!! So as long as it keeps him down there then I am fine. Plus when having sex its so much more electric. I highly suggest it.
What would be even hotter is if you and him shaved it together!
2007-01-15 03:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you keep it maintained. Nothing worse than rubbing your nose on sandpaper while you're trying to munch. Personally, I don't mind it, but I do like just a little landing strip left behind.
2007-01-15 03:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋