I seem to have lost whatever sex appeal i ever had, since i split up with my last girlfriend two years ago i have had nil success, she was the absolute love of my life and i dont feel i will ever meet anyone like her again, i never talk about her to other girls, but maybe i in my mind i just cannot let her go.....
2007-01-15 02:51:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have not lost your sex appeal, girls can sense when a guy is not over their ex even if you don't talk about her and that's why you have not had any success with the girls since the break up.
I know it has been two year but when you split from someone you really love it takes time for you to move on.
You will never forget your ex but you will move on from her. To help this you have to stop comparing other girls to her and maybe if you actually start to open up more to others about your ex it will help you to move on from her eventually.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-01-15 05:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are hard to accept but u have to at the end of the day. Even tho u loved her very much it is clearly ova as its been 2 years and this has stoppd u from meeting other women. How do u know u will not find any1 else like her if u dnt try but u cant compare women to each other its not fair. Just go out enjoy urself and not think about her and u will meet sum1 thats meant 2 b, it mite take time tho. Good luck xx
2007-01-15 11:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well babes you gotta ask yourself the question - is there any hope of getting her back? After two years the answer is most likely no - so you have 1 on 2 options:
1- you spend the rest of your life alone and miserable lusting after what you cannot have
OR
2- you realise that she wasnt the one for you and that you need to get yourself back out there to meet the thousands of worthwhile - fantastic- loving females that are out there.
This woman wasnt the love of your life - how do you know if you're not giving yourself the opportunity to experience that love again?
Yes its hard - yes it takes time and effort to get yourself back out there - but you cant have her - so you have to let her go.
Good luck
xx
2007-01-15 10:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAHH Shame man. Adopt the little boy lost look. Get a little dog or any dog but one that girls will like to touch, that way you will meet loads , i promise you. Maybe you yak about your ex all the time, telling the girls you do meet how wonderful she was and how you miss her, making them feel like she is a threat and that they do not stand a chance with her. OOOps see you don't talk about her to girls, sorry. But take it on board anyway :). You will meet someone else, their are lots of girls feeling the same as you. Take care and i wish you luck. You will come right ok.:)))
2007-01-15 10:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that you still love her... But the only person that can make you happy forever is you...You have to let her go and just work on yourself. Start working out. Sign up for karate classes. Do things to keep your mind and body busy. You will find someone better and you have to be in tip top shape (mind and body) so you will be ready for her. :)
2007-01-15 11:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by RobbinATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. MOVE ON, PLEASE! There are probably soooo many other women out there that deserve a guy like you. So pick a weekend and go scope out some girls. one of my teachers met the love of HER life at Bread Co, so maybe you will meet yours at White Castle or something. But whatever you do, just forget about her and live life like it's going out of style!
2007-01-15 10:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by juicycouturegurl256 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've lost your confidence, sometime's it takes time to get over an ex, try doing more activites to occupy yourself,
get your confidence up and I'm sure you'll meet somebody.
Do you still keep in touch with your ex? or is she around your life?
2007-01-15 10:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by pinkydixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. It's not the end of the world Hon. Don't get hung up with one. There is a shortage of good men out there. Don't disappoint us hungry girls. Get back into circulation and go for it. I know you can do it.
2007-01-15 10:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right. If you compare each girl to your ex (either out loud or in your head) you are not making that girl feel special and girls are much more inclined to be turned on by a man who makes her feel that way.
2007-01-15 10:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, knock down the invisible brick wall you have built around yourself and let some love into your heart....believe me girls pick up the vibes your giving off...good luck
2007-01-15 11:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Fay M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋