I met this girl through wendys drive through a month ago and got her number she called me new years day. Weve been going out everyday since then we are officially BF and GF and were going to new york this week. weve been kissing and everything. We play around alot i was wanting to no when should i make a move? I really like her and shes 4 years older than me and graduated from college anyone with the best answer please giv me some advice?
2007-01-15 02:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by Rme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like things are freakn' awesome at the moment!
Wouldn't want u to go & spoil it by being too foward! But we can do is try and keep an eye out for those subtle hints that she may send out.Or u could just come out and ask her in a non-aggressive manner when does she think it's okay to turn up the heat! And besides it still early days so take it easy and enjoy your holiday in NYC!
All the best to both of ya'll and enjoy the holiday!
2007-01-15 02:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um sounds like you are 17 or so. So I guess advicing you about this is not contributing to the dil. of a minor. lol.
When you feel it is right. THat is the best answer. The funny thing is...you are not asking when to make the move (or at least shouldn't be). The problem with making a move is stopping when told. Most guys run into the problem of stopping. they are all riled up and make their move, the woman gently removes their hand from (button, zipper, bra clasp, breast - pick one) and they keep trying. This continuence is what causes the problem. Anyone woman/girl making out with a guy knows that he might make a move, hell it is expected. They have already decided when they start fooling around if they are going to have sex.
So make your move and stop when prompt. She may not be ready, but she will trust you more and be more comfortable if you show her that you respect her and not push her after she rejects the attempt.
2007-01-15 10:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first and foremost thing in any relationship is communication. In other words ask her, not us, when you should make a move. If you are talking about sex it's not a good idea to guess on this. Discuss it with her, see if you are both ready and have the necessary precautions available.
2007-01-15 11:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by William CURTIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first and foremost thing in any relationship is communication. In other words ask her, not us, when you should make a move. If you are talking about sex it's not a good idea to guess on this. Discuss it with her, see if you are both ready and have the necessary precautions available.
2007-01-15 10:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Randy, just take it easy. Keep on with the bf/gf relationship for just a little more time. You barely know her and she barely know you.
I believe you need to know each other very well before getting into any deeper matters. It takes time to know someone. If you love and respect each other, waiting a little more will not affect the relationship. After all 15 days is not enough time to know someone.
2007-01-15 10:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's too fast.. You must think first where she come from and better know her family background (top important) .. and the people close to her..
2007-01-15 10:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter but if you really love her and she loves you back than go ahead and make your next move.
2007-01-15 10:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Keely M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really think that you should tell her what she thinks about that and if she loves you alot like you do well i think that you should go for it!!
2007-01-15 10:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by angelica v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ure a little fast. take it slow for now.
2007-01-15 10:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? Go for it.
2007-01-15 10:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by L&C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋