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2007-01-15 01:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by sparetom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go.....I'm dealing with the same thing, and I know it can NEVER be, but it's so hard to let go. It's good to know that YOU know that being together will never happen, because if you didn't realize that, you'll be fooling and torturing yourself.
2007-01-15 02:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your thoughts and actions with things and people that are possible. Loving someone you can never be with would be a terrible drain on your time, energy and emotions. It will sap you of any joy in life. Mourn the loss and move on. Terribly sad, but not permanent. Love will come again if you leave yourself open to it!
2007-01-15 02:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You walk away as I did and take the pain and suffering, but only for a little while.
Here is some exact words when I had undergone that emotional stress. "Oh God, it hurts so much, I can't take it. Why is this happening to me. I am trying to be strong but it....hurts so badly...(uncontrollably lost)....tears flow.....(uncontrollable cry)...gasping for air."
I will stoip right there. I survived that day and walked away with a scar that still is felt in my heart, but what makes the whole pattern fall in place is that I became a stronger Man and learned that at least once in a life time your gonna spill your guts out as a child, but never again.
I look at you with eyes of strength and verile compassion.
No woman can bring that kind of pain ever to me again,
I am stronger and better and that love made me stronger and better.
What ever God has in his plan. he sure busted me up on that one, but his intention was clearly marked for greatness once I understood what would prevail and how I would grow to become who I am now and preach about it to help others. When God steps in all hell breaks loose, but after the Storm..the Sun shines through clouds and you look up and smile and learn another signification of life and its ways concering love and God and notice I never mentioned jesus and you know why???
Because it wsas not the work of Jesus, it was the works of his Father that punished me./
2007-01-15 02:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you did'nt give us any information and you did'nt even list one reason so going by what you did write take a look at it and reread it you really answered your own question.You can never be with that person so you simply need to let it go and move to someone that you can be with.
2007-01-15 02:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you love about her. Then look for that in someone else. And if you're still young (or at least adventurous) you might want to look into moving to a new town or something ... out of sight, out of mind, maybe.
2007-01-15 02:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by MikeTX 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over it....if u can't be with this person then u just need to move on. This person probably doesnt respect you at all and the best thing for u would be to move on. i know it's hard but u gota do it. this person doesnt realize how great u are but there is a person out there that will.
2007-01-15 02:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pump your fist, take a shower and call it a day...we all want something we cannot have. It's only a problem if you obsess and let it take over your sense of reason. There's always more sand at the beach...
2007-01-15 02:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you DO have a small amount of time to spend with them, be happy with it and make the most of it.
2007-01-15 02:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by K.W. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless the perso is married or dead the words "can never be with" are just an excuse not to try cause you are affraid...if you love her then go after her
2007-01-15 02:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah dude, sorry I'm not available.
2007-01-15 02:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋