my boyfriend cheated on me twice so far n i mean we live together n crap n we have been 2 gether for 6 1/2 months n we r in totally love but because he cheated on me 2 times already my friends want me 2 break up n i dont want 2 n i kno that hes sry 4 what he did 2 me sry cuz if he didnt we wouldnt b plannin r weddin n the sex is great....but thats not y im still with him...i think its pretti possible that im pregent n i cant tell him that...so should i stay with him even tho he cheated on me...n should i tell him that we might be havin a bay i mean hes 17 1/3 almost 18 n 17 1/2
2007-01-15 01:51:37 · 26 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i found out that i am i went to the docters n they told iam pregant n i dont kno if i should have the baby or not
2007-01-15 02:59:18 · update #1
You have invested so much time into this relationship and he's only cheated twice in that time. You have such a wonderful life to look forward to what with a baby on the way. He did say sorry right and I'm sure he meant it this time. He's so mature where would you ever find another man to fill his shoes? All your decisions have worked out great so far. You don't need us you know what to do.
2007-01-15 02:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years on the 21st of this month and he told me when we got together no matter what he will never cheat on me and he has never done it before so I never in a million years thought he would. We had a baby 13 months ago. It changed everything we fight all the time about the dumbest things but most of all I get stressed because he does 1 thing he cooks and everything else is done by me. He has probably changed our daughters diapers 12 times since she was born and thats only because he has to!
Anyhow he says he was looking for a perfect fairy tale relationship which before the baby it seemed really good and we never faught. He met a girl at his job and first started out as friends but then he took her to a motel and you know what happenned next. So anyways he told me it was because he didnt wanna be with me anymore but then he changed his mind and decided he did and I took him back like the dumba** I am! Now that we have worked this out as it was 3 months ago I have been seriously thinking about my life and wondering if this is what I want. But in a way I think I just dont have any other options. I have no family to help me as they are all 1000 miles away and not many friends.
2007-01-15 03:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, let me tell you this. If you stay, you will forever live the life of a cheated woman. He isn't faithful now and he never will be. If you can live with that and that's the example you want to set for your child, stay with him. If you know you deserve a loving and faithful man to help raise this baby, than you will need a respectable, honorable and caring man to do just that. I suggest you move on for not even your own sake, but for this infants sake. Why not give this baby a chance from the start? That is your responsibility as a mom. You'll be a great mom and that child will bring so much love into your world! Trust me. I know what I am talking about. You get the last word!
2007-01-15 02:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far? Ok, if he has cheated on you 2x in 6 months, do the math. That is once for every 3 months. That would give him approximately 4 additional persons in a year. Just b/c you think you might be pregnant is not a reason to marry man that will cheat on you. It's the same as a man that will hit you. Of course he is sorry, but it won't stop him the next time. Your friends are being true to you by wanting you to break up with him You should be true to yourself and know that you deserve to be treated with respect and to have someone in your life that will not cheat on you. Consider the fact that every time he has sex with someone else, so are you. You don't know these other women. You don't know where they have been, and you really don't want to have any of their excess baggage brought to your door. There are such things as STD's and Lets not forget HIV. Kick his butt to the curb and find yourself a real man. Don't jeopordize your own health and/or your self worth. You deserve so much better.
2007-01-15 02:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok n snce he cheated n stuff n like you think he loves u tho n if he really was in luv with u he wouldnt have cheated n 2 tell u the truth I think your kinda stupid for putting up with this. because you've been together a whole 6 months, and wow thats like such a long time. that someone could stray, imagine if u 2 r together for like a whole year, he'll probably have cheated on u like 6 times by then, but yeah he luvs you thats why hes planning, yeah u shuld definitely get maried, and have that baby, because what we need is another loveless marriage, ending in divorce with a child involved.
2007-01-15 02:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dylan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on you, that is NOT love...
Sex is NOT a reason to stay together, at all. It can actually cause more problems. You need to have a real connection, sex included, but not only that.
You are YOUNG. I'm sure you've heard this before, but in context you are truly young.
Do not stay with him if he's cheated, it was TWICE (that you know of), and even if you are pregnant, you don't want a daddy that's gonna run off... You don't want to keep getting hurt.
2007-01-15 02:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Erin* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A baby won't help mend your relationship. You should take heed of what your friends are saying and run now. If he loved and cared for you he would'nt be cheating on you. Don't waste your money on this wedding because you'll end up getting divorced soon after because he'll go out and cheat on you again. You need $ for the baby and make sure to get on the pill so that you won't get pregnant again with this fools baby! I feel sorry for your unborn child, a fooling around father and a hard headed mother who likes to be taken advantage of.
2007-01-15 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has already cheated on you 2 times then you really need to get rid of him. Baby or not. He can't take care of you as his woman then he definitely can't take care of a baby. He knows that he can get away with cheating on you so he will continue to do it. once a cheater always a cheater. Be a woman and stand up for yourself have some self esteem and get rid of him now.
2007-01-15 02:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look honey sorry to say but anyone that has cheated on you twice does not love you, and to make it worse in 6 1/2 months. You dont need someone like that in your life, a nd if you are pregnant in your baby's life. he could be part of your baby's life but not of yours, unless you have the low self esteem, and need him. Men come and go, and its obvious he doesnt respect you, you will find one that will down the road.
2007-01-15 01:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, any guy who cheats on you is no good. Especially if you live together and are in that serious of a relationship, the fact that he isn't willing to commit to you means he never will. You need to find someone else who'll treat you right!
2007-01-15 01:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by mariatheshark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋