He lives in a different country where he moved 5 months ago. Before he used to live here. It has been 2 years since we are having affair. 1 month before i found him cheating me, i lost all the trust. we 3, the girl, my boyfriend and me live in different countries. This girl was after him since a long time which he met once while travelling. He gave her his contact no.. Now the girl proposed him after a few days and he denied. Now after 3 years of that incident they both met on a social networking site, where i found both of them flirting. He proved himself innocent by telling me an UNREALISTIC story in a very emotional way. Its hard to believe on it. He says he truly loves me and its impossible for him to cheat me. Now he says, he broke all contacts with her. Should i trust on his stupid story or not? Was he lying? Was he really having an affair with that girl? Which he broke up when i found? I can't dump him because he says he is very serious for me and i don't want to hurt him.
2007-01-15 01:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by me... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He lives in a different country where he moved 5 months ago. Before he used to live here. It has been 2 yrs since we are having affair. 1 month before i found him cheating me, i lost all the trust. we the girl, my boyfriend and me live in different countries. This girl was after him since a long time which he met once while travelling. He gave her his contact no.. Now the girl proposed him after a few days and he denied. Now after 3 yrs of that incident they both met on a social networking site, where i found both of them flirting. He proved himself innocent by telling me an UNREALISTIC story in a very emotional way. Funny part is that the girl knows about me. He says he truly loves me and its impossible for him to cheat me. Now he says, he broke all contacts with her. Should i trust on his stupid story? Was he lying? Was he really having an affair with that girl? Which he broke up when i found? I can't dump him because he says he is very serious for me and i don't want to hurt him.
2007-01-15 02:42:33 · update #1
Trust is a must in any relationship!! If you can not trust this guy, he will hurt you one way or another. Or you start to question anything he tells you and he will leave you as he cant take it any more. I suggest you cut your losses and move on to a guy that respects you enough not to lie and cheat on you !!! You are worthy of that respect!!!
2007-01-15 02:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any of this matters. He is far away in a different country. Take the upper hand and suggest that you both see other people and see what his reaction is.
If his reaction is that it sounds like a good idea, then you should move on.
If his reaction is no, then you may want to pursue things further but with caution. Unless he plans to return or you plan to move out there with him, the relationship has very little chance to develop any further anyway.
I wouldn't worry about hurting him by being honest about your feelings and suspisions because after all it is you that is hurting. Find a way to make him prove his feelings for you.
You sound like you have alot more going for you than to monitor someone in a foreign country. If he loves you, you will absolutely know it, not guess or wonder.
2007-01-15 02:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by L&C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how are you so confused about what can you do in this matter, but I think you have a way to know the truth. Why do not you try to know the story from the other side? I mean why do not you go to find that girl and talk with her and to ask her about what is really happenning between them? I think the girl will tell you the truth, because whatever she likes him, she is a girl in final and she will not accept cheating on you or on her. Try to do that and then face him with what you discover if he is lying on you. If he do not, you will not lose any thing by trying that. I hope this help you and good luck to you.
2007-01-15 02:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Searching for the truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely I were given a narrative for you hun..i became cheated on once to and it sucked i became grounded for 2 weeks because of this guy and in those 2 weeks he became having sex with yet another woman...my ideal suggestion for you is drop him like a warm potatoe!! All I even might want to say is once a cheater continuously a cheater..if this guy actually had an same emotions you've for him he does not be putting out with those different women and what not!!! you may of route do more desirable and besides the actual undeniable truth that it will likely be complicated at first you receives through it!!!
2016-10-17 01:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by sovak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The story your boyfriend gave you is really unrealistic. It is extremely difficult to believe that it just HAPPENED to be this particular girl that he was flirting with. Break up with him. You deserve a more secure relationship. Sometimes we have to hurt people in order to save ourselves from being really really hurt.
2007-01-15 01:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was he doing on the site? come on dont believe him ud be foolish to
2007-01-15 02:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋