my boyfriend cheated on me twice so far n i mean we live together n **** n we have been 2 gether 4 6 1/2 months n we r in totally love but because he cheated on me 2 times already my friends want me 2 break up n i dont want 2 n i kno that hes sry 4 what he did 2 me sry cuz if he didnt we wouldnt b plannin r weddin n the sex is great....but thats not y im still with him...i think its pretti possible that im pregent n i cant tell him that...so wat should i tell him????
2007-01-15 01:48:11 · 13 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out if you are pregnant first. then sit him down and talk to him about it. Maybe a child will make him behave better..
2007-01-15 01:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by lemonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in quite a hectic situation! Notice how you've mentioned MORE THAN ONCE how he cheated on you TWICE!!!!
But seriously i don't have much advice for you except for...don't you think things betwn ya'll are moving a bit toooooo fast! I mean u just met the guy 6 and a half months ago and already the both of you have moved in and if i'm not mistaken the were plans regarding a wedding somewhere in the near future!!!Damn girl!
Even if the sex was freakin' mind blowing, you dont deserve to be cheated on TWICE and be taken for granted the way you are being now!
All the best of luck to u!
2007-01-15 02:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you think you are pregnant
hmmmm
ok he has cheated twice lets make the assumption that it was 2 different girls
hmmmm
ok if those 2 girls slept with someone and they slept with someone and they slept with someone and so on and so it keeps on multiplying on
i hope you can see where im going with this
not only should you have a prego test but a full std screening as well
i feel very sorry for you to be in this situation it seems that from my experience with workmates and such that once a cheater always a cheater 6.5 months and hes lost the spark with you already
on the other hand did he move in with you could it be that he is just using you to lie on while he has a root and a sleep
before going out again, does he go out a lot and make excuses not to take you to any social function with his mates does he stay out all night without calling does he treat you like shite
life is short you need to make it the best you can while you are here
if you are not happy in this situation then i suggest you think long and hard about your immediate future with this low life
he will never truly love you for who you are
as he wants love elswhere or why would he chase it
i mean he'd stay with you and be with you heaps if he truly loved you he should be proud to have you hang off of his arm woulnd't he?
whats that a virgin well thats just farrrrkt hes a cherry popper
all he wanted was to farkQ first there are some carnts out here who thats all they want is cherries and when theyve had it so have you
2007-01-15 02:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy claims he loves you, you claim the sex is great and may be pregnant but he still has cheated on you twice. This guy doesn't truly care for you. Right now you are simply a convenience and he will keep cheating. Chances are if he finds out you are pregnant he will leave you for someone else or just cheat on you while you are left to shoulder the burden alone. You need to get out now. If you are pregnant then he needs to support you and the baby financially but if you stay with this guy he will hurt you even more in the long run.
2007-01-15 01:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by notaxpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe 1 time and he is sorry but twice means you let him get away with it the first time and he did it again obviously not feeling that sorry or bad to do it more than once or even at all....hes marrying you just cause he wants to show you he is sorry but that wont changes him why dont you think he will cheat on you when you are married marriage should not be that much of a bigger commitment than a normal relationship....i say ditch him and find your self
2007-01-15 01:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check and make sure to see if you're pregnant first. If you're not, then just break up with him because you gave him a chance the first time and he still cheated on you for a second time. He's not worth it!!! But if you are pregnant, you should tell him; maybe he'll be more faithful to you then...
2007-01-15 01:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start thinking about your future with your boyfriend and how it would be to be married to him and what you want from this relationship. There is another person involved now, so now it's time to make hard decisions and stick to it.Good luck
2007-01-15 01:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't figure out what you should do by now, I feel sorry for whatever children you might have, now or in the future.
Are you brain-dead, or just like to piss & moan about how badly your guy treats you?
2007-01-15 01:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he keeps cheating on you; and he will because you keep forgiving him, that your gonna dump him and he can just pay up in big time child support for that baby.
2007-01-15 01:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid for you. Go to a familly planning clinc. Stop stay out of the bed with this guy.
2007-01-15 01:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by running 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋