All my friends tell me that if I don't have sex soon people will start thinking I'm gay. But I'm not gay. I ONLY like girls, but I don't have a girlfriend yet and I haven't had sex of even kissed a girl. What if I don't ever get a girlfriend in high school? Some kids don't, and they never end up getting girlfriends they end up being loners in life, that's what my friend said.
I'm not ugly, and I am not overweight. I work out often so I have been getting more muscular. But I'm not tall, I'm only 5"2, that's short for 15 so maybe only girls like tall guys? PLZ help me!!! what do I do?
2007-01-15 01:46:39 · 18 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
** I'm 15 years old
2007-01-15 01:47:18 · update #1
Look at this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070115064644AA0ZEhU&r=w&pa=FZptHWf.BGRX3OFMhzxdV7iQ_IAcMz413ESiRCEQrbEZmgWlmW87zB5mryRqX1GM_IbvrlyCnU5KHSlt9w--&paid=answered#Ec0tDjK6VDAUfouRZcpLmKox5xRRJrdkm.TM7d52qjpptlN.d.x7
girls only like tall guys
2007-01-15 01:51:19 · update #2
don't listen to them they sound like a big bunch of jerks. You are probably a fine person who doesn't need a girlfriend in your life right now and you are still a strong and healthy person without one. Don't you want to save it for you one true love?
2007-01-15 01:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by lemonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 there is a lot of other things to think about...
Don't worry!
I mean... Even if you had sex at 15 that wouldn't mean you are or are not gay. You didn't even kiss a girl? I don't see any problem in that!
Think about it that way:
once you find the right girl, believe me, she will be more than happy to know you didn't mess around just because you thought every one else did (remember there is a slight difference between what buddies tell you and what they actually do).
You are in for a great romance, just don't get obsessed by the thought it should happen in the next 24 hours or so :-)
Sit back, relax, and look around. A girlfriend will eventually enter your life when you least expect it!
2007-01-15 09:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Matteo R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you want: do you want to have sex with a girl? no one is twisting your arm- some people dont believe in sex before marraige. If your "friends" make fun of you for being gay just because you havent done it yet, then they're probably not very good friends in the first place are they? friends are supposed to be encouraging and respectful; theyre not supposed to put you down. and anyways, your only 15. you've still got time to find just the right person. And dont just have sex or make out with a girl just to say youve done it; wait until you find a special person that you reallly love and have feelings for.
2007-01-15 09:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! You're 15, that's not too old! And listen, I'm only 4'11", so I can tell you that people my height will date short guys. And I didn't have my first bf until I was 14. The right girl will come when you least expect it. And that'll make your first time all the more special. Trust Maria. She knows. ;-]
2007-01-15 10:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by mariatheshark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 15 relax . you have 60 good years left. don't get a girl friend just to have one or you will be disappointed. find one you like take your time and get to know her. Just don't become too good of friends before you ask her out or you will get the old I like you too much as a friend.
2007-01-15 09:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax Dude; you are putting to much pressure on yourself. When the time is right to meet a girl it will happen. In the meantime get involved with activities that you genuinely enjoy and you may meet girls there.
2007-01-15 09:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was like you just about 3 moths ago and i thought the same thing, but let me tell you this, ITS WELL WORTH THE WAIT, don't worry about what other guys say, just follow what you think/feel. I'm sure you'll find a good gf one day that will she appreicate you being pure just like mine gf does. She is my first gf and i'm her first bf and we gave each other our first kiss =D it was awesome! we've had our lil diffrences but its gone so good that we will be getting married in 2 years. so yeah dont worry about it and just wait, if you keep ur self pure one day you will bump into one that is pure like you and you will have a pure relationship and that is just great =) keep up hopes up! ^_^
2007-01-15 09:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by SMD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER KISSED!!!!!!????kissing is in my routine these days...not sex just had once....u gotta be a man flirt with girls be polite with them.....hv friendship first.....dnt worry i hv a guy in my class who is 4"8,he has a girlfriend too...nw learn what i wrote and best of luck!!!!!
2007-01-15 09:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find someone.
relax.
dont need to rush into it.
you are still young, and have a long life ahead of you.
its not like you're the 40 year old virgin or anything.
2007-01-15 10:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by celine marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude my sisters friend is 5,0 and hes 16 and he gets girls all the time ust make sure you can defend yourself and dont listen to your friends .their just pulling your leg.just ask cool and ask someone out to the movies (trust me its the best place for a first date) just make sure its a scary movie so she stays near you and when she does put your arm around her. Im glad i can help
2007-01-15 09:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋