About 20 years ago I was with an older woman & it was a fine experience. In her words: "you made me feel like a woman & I made you feel like a man". Any women out there have anything to share about how a woman can be with a man 14 years older. I'm talking 30s & 40s.
2007-01-15 01:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by sparetom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was 18 when I met my husband...he was 32. We were together on and off for 10 years before we got married. I am now 55 and he will be 69 next month! I seldom think about our ages, and we have both had some major health problems....but we love each other very much.....We have one son together and he had 3 girls with his first wife.....I love his daughters and they all consider our son as their little brother.....he is now 23, and I am only 6 years older than his oldest daughter....we are fortunate, and after 28 years I am still in love with my husband! He likes to hunt, and I like to sew...we both cook, and we like to fish and gamble. Our finances are just normal..in fact probably not as good as they could be......but age hasn't played into our relationship ever.......if you really care about each other, that is all that matters. And if you are wondering how sex plays out.....it's still good!
2007-01-15 02:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sherrie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they will have little in common and a 14 year old girl is unlikely to be able to consent to that realistically - would she still be able to go to school, get a degree, have a career? She would miss out on all of that good stuff of the teenage years - friends, self discovery, dating, learning responsibility in stages etc If you believe that it would be OK for a 50 year old woman to marry a 14 year old boy and for him to learn to cook, clean, take care of the house, make his wife happy etc then you may have some justification in arguing that this is OK but if you feel the boy would not be making the most of his life and would not be happy with this arrangement then you can see why a girl would not be either. A topless 18 year old stripper has made her choice - a 14 year old girl has not.
2016-03-28 22:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with a few older men like 20 to 30 years older, older is allot of times better... older men have more experience in relationships and they are in some cases much better in bed... most are very secure and know how to have a real relationship and most want more then just the sex at that point in their life :) :) :)
2007-01-15 01:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 30 and my GF is 19. Age is so not an issue. What is there to talk about? What could we have in common? EVERTYTHING!
We're both artists. I'm in the fashion/graphic design feild and she's going into fashion..i already know the ropes and help her out giving her a step above everyone else. our minds are alike and we have 3-4 hour long convos...we've been togetehr for almost a year and everyday seems like it was the first. I go out with her on weekends I love going out..so dont go generalizing thats 30 yr olds are like 90 yr olds...30 is the new 20
2007-01-15 01:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by V P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a man 12 years older than me. We've been together 10 TRYING years, married for 5 of those years. If I had to do it again I WOULDN'T! He's 45 and I'm 33 and we finally found out we really have NOTHING in common! He feels and acts like an OLD, PREDICTABLE, BORING man, while I'm still young enough to want to go out, see the world, and have fun!
2007-01-15 01:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! It can be done, I've dated much older myself =) The more I've dated, the more I've learned it's not about numbers, it's about chemistry/maturity/experiences etc. I'm with someone now who's nine years older than me and we get along perfectly. We complete each other in different ways =) Plus, when you're with someone that much older per say, you notice a difference in the above described. You don't feel like you're in "high school" still with dating someone younger.
2007-01-15 01:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been out with many men 14+ years older than me, and it has always been an enjoyable experience, they are so much more experienced sexually and really appreciate a younger woman. They're also really dirty, which I love.
2007-01-15 01:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by assparted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent been with a man 14 years older than me...but i dont feel age matters. im only 21 but it wouldnt bother me to be with a guy that was that many years older than me. i feel age is just a number and its how you are treated that matters the most!!
2007-01-15 01:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by sweetchick21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't actually have any experience, but I would just like to say that if somebody makes you feel good in ALL ways then they are the right one to be with. So anybody in that situation should feel comfortable and happy and ignore any negativity from other people.
2007-01-15 01:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a guy who was just two years older than me last year
2007-01-15 01:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋