My boyfriend let me borrow his phone cause mine broke yesterday now i was looking for someones number in my phone and as i was scrolling i noticed numbers that were not mine i was like oh ok he must have some saved to his phone then i came across the ex numbers...im i wrong for thinking he shouldnt still have them there,
Please advice cause he doesnt see he is wrong at all....
He came with the excuse he keeps the numbers just incase they call and he doesnt erase numbers anyway..
Me personally wants your out you out for good if we dont talk whats the reason...PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-15 01:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by Happy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To make it clear it was my chip in his phone so it was my contact details in there and then i realised it was his also...
He broke up with his ex well one because she was dishonest...
They have no business ifiliations, no kids, nothing....He at one stage didnt even want me to go out with my male friends....
I understood where he was coming from but didnt change it but i undestood..
For the other women thats why most of your husbands are cheating on you i can almost gurantee..my arugement is not that i dont trust and i think he would chest its the principal of why the hell those he need to have the numbers whats a good enough reason..
2007-01-15 01:48:49 · update #1
You are not over exaggerating. He should have erased those numbers. He would not have the numbers unless he still wanted them, for "whatever" reason. I think this invokes serious questions about his fidelity.
What would he do if you had your ex's numbers in your phone?
2007-01-15 01:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think your overreacting at all In fact I would have the same reaction if the peron I was dating still had their Ex's phone number in their book too, Why Do they need to have their Ex's phone number in their book, What are they planning on calling them one day out of the blue just to see what they're up to or are they leaving the number there so just in case if they call they'll see who it is and answer the phone, If I were you I wouldn't say anything but just keep a real closer eye or your man from this point on.
2007-01-15 09:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not very often that you find this, but sometimes two people are still friends after the break up because they feel like that's what works better for them. Just because he and his ex's still want to be friends or just communicate when they have small problems, it doesn't mean there's something going on between them.
2007-01-15 09:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question. Since you came across some #s you aren't sure about, when discussing it, you don't want to come across confrontational. Nobody responds to confrontation =(, but if you ask like ex: "I was looking for (name's) in your cell, I saw an unrecognizable # in there", and then let him answer. If the answeres don't sound real or reassuring, you probably don't want to stay with someone like that anyway =)
2007-01-15 09:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so insecure? Did he give you a reason to be insecure?
My husbands ex wife has dinner at our house at least once a month.
Grow up.... just because someone was in a past relationship doesn't mean you have to get them out of your life forever.
Now if he gave you a reason to be so jealous about this ex, then maybe you can ask him nicely to remove it and tell him how it makes you feel.
A phone number is really only a phone number.
2007-01-15 09:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Angel A 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think you are being childish and petty!!!! I almost seems as though you are trying to "find" something to jump his case about! You need to grow up and deal with your insecurities!!
I never delete #'s from my cell. I can meet a potential business client, put his number in my cell, and never call him - should my husband assume I am sleeping with him???
I hate to sound like a bitc*, but this is YOUR problem, not your boyfriend's!! If you seriously do not trust him anymore than that, WHY are you still in the relationship? You need to think about it!!
2007-01-15 09:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you scrolling through the information on his phone? That's private. If you are going to be so ill-mannered then be prepared for what you find which was none of your business in the first place.
PS Why do you think you can trust a man at your age?
2007-01-15 09:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I keep ex's numbers just encase i ever need to ask her something or if something happens that I think she should know about. If he isnt calling them dont worrie.
2007-01-15 09:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cud be telling the truth... if they call him and it's just the number up he will answer it and talk to them at least for a minute... but if ther name comes up bcuz it's in his phone... maybe he will ignore it.
just trust him for now...if u don't then your relationship will start to fall apart
2007-01-15 09:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy with all of my ex's numbers... for his sake dont jump to conclusions, i do innocently sometimes want to talk to my ex sometimes about girl stuff that cant be done with a girlfriend, often because its about the girlfriend (nothing bad about her, just a talk like you wuld your friends) I also suggest not bringing it up with him unless u serioul\sly suspect him of being dishonest
2007-01-15 09:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by rick JAMES 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋