I never met my father, he died before i was born, actaully he died trying to get to the hospital when my mom was in labor. My whole life i never had a dad until 1st grade when my mom married my step father. I love my step fater like hes my real dad, is this wrong? Also him and my mom have been fighting ALOT and i think they might get divorced. Please help me
2007-01-15 01:23:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to the two of them and tell them that you really love them and that it breaks your heart everytime they fight. Tell them that you don't want to lose any of them. Convince them that if they really love you, they will try to be more understanding on each other and solve whatever problems they have to save the marriage and your family. I wish I could help you with this.
2007-01-15 01:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to an adult that you trust at school or in the family. That behavior is uncalled for. He knew that your mother had childern when he agreed to marry her. I am a step mom, and it is not the same situation, but if it was I can tell you it would go nothing like that. This man is ill and it makes him feel more manly when he treats people this way. WHat I think is that it makes him look childest that he has to pick on women and childern. Why doesn't your mother do something about it? NEVERTHELESS, talk to an adult that you trust, they will get you the help that you need and there is help out there. Keep your chin up, it'll be ok, someone will help you! God bless you!
2016-05-24 05:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be hard for you to have to deal with this situation especially when you long to have the love of both parents as any child would in the growing up years.....You never did mention your relationship with your step dad and I take it that he treated you well the way you treated him. Also, with your mum it must be the same. It would be good to have a heart to heart talk as a family regarding the divorce and how it is affecting you...They need to know how you feel about the whole situation and also they have a right to your opinions as well. If the situation does come to a point where there is a divorce than you can think about who you will be staying with and your visitation rights with the oher party. Some things are unavoidable I guess and if a relationship turns sour, it is best to be friends than enemies for life...good luck and hope everything turns out for the best for everyone.....
2007-01-15 01:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can really do that is between your mom an your dad(step).. If there are problems there they cant work through then there is no reason for them to stay married.. An they just might be like every other couple Fight an argue its normal.. My mom an dad fuss an fight but there still married an have been for 24 years..
2007-01-15 01:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are fighting entertain them by saying or doing funny things. Try to compromise between the 2 by listening to each word they say. I feel so sorry for you. your story on your life is very sad. I wish I could help.
2007-01-15 01:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋