Even after 15yrs of marriage and seven kids my husband and I are still very much in love. Before&during Christmas there just didn't seem to be any time for us to be alone. Normally we pick one night of the week get all the kids in bed by eight, run a bath&have a nice romantic evening of peace and quiet but we hadn't even managed that.
As a result my husband took me away for the wkend recently&we had an amazing time,it completely rekindled our love for one another&our confidence in the strength of our relationship.Naturally enough I was not ready to come home but we had to.
Now tho I find myself in a bit of a predicament, I am obsessed with getting him into bed and having passionate sex like we had over the wkend.On saturday night2of my older kids were staying w/ friends so I bathed the three little ones together&had them all in bed by 6.45!So we had the night to ourselves.Is it natural or fair to want to get your kids out of the way,following my previous posting on the accidental
2007-01-15 01:01:14 · 11 answers · asked by strictmom 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
spank I received, we have been trying new and different things in the bedroom, and our sex life is more exciting than ever. Is it natural to be acting like a teenager and feel this way or should I stay focused on my responsibilities and stop being so self indulgent?
2007-01-15 01:02:21 · update #1
First, you need to realize that the most important relationship in the house is between you and your husband. So, don't feel guitly. Secondly...all i think about is being w/ my husband! You have waaaaay more children than I do, but I feel your pain. Don't feel guitly for wanting your kids to be in bed early to spend time with your husband...it's natural. Just make sure that you're not "over sleeping" them and that when you are with your children they have your attention...don't want them to FEEL pushed away! Let your inner teenager come out! Don't hold it back. Sex is beautiful...passion is beautiful...if you're trying new things in the bedroom and you're enjoying it...let it roll! Sex was created to be enjoyed and to bring the marriage to new heights of intimacy...just enjoy it! Speaking of which...have you ever "danced" for your husband...talking about trying new things in the bedroom...this will KNOCK HIS SOCKS OFF! Order this video :The art of exotic dancing...there are a couple of different movies in this series...get the one that says something about ENTERTAINING YOUR MAN...it's GOOD STUFF!! A great instructional. Let go of your inhabitions and be your husbands LIVING FANTASY. Good Luck!!
2007-01-15 01:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Erin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is wonderful and inspiring that after having kids and 15 years together you have such a wonderful sex life. If more couples in the US were like you we would not have such a high divorce rate! I would say keep on doing what you are doing, keeping a marriage full of life and passion is the best thing you can give your kids, because they will have parents that are happy and committed to each other.
While it is not the best thing to have all the kids in bed so early on a regular basis, I think overall you are putting your relationship first, which is the best way to take care of your kids. Just continue being responsible and taking care of your family.
2007-01-15 09:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can get your kids in bed that early to have a night to yourselves go for it!! Lucy you to have such a great sex life with your husband!! Why ask....feeling sorry for the rest of us? lol
2007-01-15 09:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I first got married that's all I could think about. In my late 30's to mid 40's I don't like it anymore. I can do without it. I'm no longer interested. Probably because I'm not as in love as I was when I first got married. It would be another chore for me to do, I don't like chores. You must still be deeply in love with your spouse as the day you met.
2007-01-15 09:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it's a little selfish that you put your kids in bed that early just so you and your husband can have sex. Others may disagree, but I think that's really bad and selfish parenting.
2007-01-15 10:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with still wanting to sleep with your husband, at least he wont stray. Relax and enjoy.
2007-01-15 09:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by The Way 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldn't question it, and just enjoy it. i am happy for you and your husband. i think its wonderful that the two of you are having that kind of love still, and i think the two of you have many more years together. you prove that, love can last.
2007-01-15 10:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go through that phase but yeah that's good for your sex life.
2007-01-15 09:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Napolean Dynamite- "Luccckkkkyy"!!!!!
2007-01-15 09:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nice......but what does this have to do with parenting?
2007-01-15 10:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋