What do i do with her?Life is just screwed up. Pls help me?

Question

Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me

Answer 1

let her go , she want to hold on to someone for the days that she is lonley. find someone else

Answer 2

dear pls help me,
don't bring up the "Date" just yet she may have been trying to tell you no gently by useing x-mas. as for contact...don't count yourself out yet there is sertainly a chance 4 a friend there so keep the comunication open, after all she did say to e-mail her and that she may reply late but that she would get back to you. So I would say that your answer lies in her future contacts with you. hope your not disapointed...GOOd luck from goaga j

Answer 3

You're being played, my friend.

You're her fallback position, an ace in the hole, a position to retreat to if what she Really Wants doesn't work out.

If you were as important to her as she is to you, she wouldn't be begging off and making excuses and spending weeks ignoring you.

Start treating her the same way she's treating you... like a casual friend.

Find someone Else to share emotional stuff with. ( someone who will appreciate the attention and return it equally.)

Answer 4

shes probably still stunned on how her best friend likes her. and if shes oversees then her package or mail will come like a week late i wish my dad in egypt didnt have the sme problem........ :(