what if my ex wanted me back after all the pain he had cost to me.coz for now i just broke up with him and decide to go abroad for a work and to forget him as well.what if i came back to phils and still love him and he will try to convince me to come back to him.should i trust him again or i must to ignore him rather than to cheat me again? its just that this guy had a child to his exgf and while me and hi is in agood terms ut months goes by i just knew to his sister that his exgf and him seeing secretively.so i decide to broke up with him but before that i fight for my love to him but he make me confuse of his love to me.so i end it and i told him that he will regret to all his desicion for not stopping well lets say im obscess on him.what can i do i love him very muc but anyway i nedd ur help what if i came back here in my country sees me again and wanted me again.
2007-01-15 00:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by krizzy83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should let him go i know its not as easy as it sound but u need to try and forget about him if he really wants u he would try to contact u while u abroad but if u keep going back to him he,s going to keep taking advantage of u cause he knows u crazy abt him so let him come to u instead of u going to him all d time see other people may be it will help get ur mind off him
2007-01-15 00:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by affh1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard cause you seem like you still have strong feelings for him and haven't let go but don't do it. I think the drama happened for a reason and you going back to him will just repeat it's cycle and may even get worse. Try to be patient and see where your life will take you w/out him. God may have better plans for you and eventually you may find that someone who will invest 100% in loving you rather than causing you any pain. Stay strong!
2007-01-15 00:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by adorable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason you broke up in the first place. Just cause he wants to get back together with you, doesn't mean that you should.
Go abroad, do your thing and see how it goes from there.
2007-01-15 00:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the "IF"!Your if may not happen!
And how can you forget him if you are already thinking about reuniting with him?He's not an honest man!I hope you find the man who is meant for you abroad.Forget him!He will always meet with his ex bec he has a child with her.
2007-01-15 00:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his a**. just be friends. n e one that could do that to u once will do it to u again. I dont care how much they say they r sorry or have changed it just runs in the blood. u r just setting yourself up for a world of hurt
2007-01-15 00:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT IT IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE ever trust me men are all the same liers, they ll never change. Mine put a guy name on his phone but really it was his ex-g-f number. What a jack ***. but I caught him. 1 month later.
2007-01-15 00:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by melbert34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he want you back and you think is good to give him the love back . just do it but dont easily accept. but mind you that he still have the potential to repeat it again
2007-01-15 00:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by national don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
past is past,go ahead but don't turn back.u r better ignore him but maintain a normal friend.u've already tasted n suffered before,don't tell me that u still want to suffer again?
best wishes.
2007-01-15 00:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are full of "what if" girl.. just face whatever happens... you may even forget him when you are working in aborad... dn't leave your thoughts in the philippines.. enjoy your work...
2007-01-15 00:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by precious_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, he can do it all over again.
2007-01-15 00:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋