Hi, I am new here. Glad to meet you all! One of my friends is dating with a boy who has herpes. But she is clean. I think it is very incredible that she knows it before dating with him and she think it is nothing.
I wonder why she can accept a boy with STD. Would you mind your boyfriend or girlfriend has STD?
2007-01-14 19:32:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
she has a pus**head. pls help her
2007-01-14 19:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed TK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is being niave. She's risking her own ability to bare children as STD's have various complications and women seem to come out on the losing end every time.
I'd never date someone who had an STD, because even being careful, being treated doesn't mean I won't end up with it to.
If a person has an STD, they absolutely have the moral, social and legal obligation to tell any man or woman who they might have sex with, before it gets to the point of having sex.
2007-01-14 19:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mountain Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very tough decision for anyone to make.
What needs to be clarified is people who get STDs are not dirty! Do you know how many people contract STDs from long term partners who don't know they are carrying the disease or who cheat, You can even contract an STD when you use protection.
2007-01-14 22:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STI's are an increasing problem within Australia and perhaps this is because people are becoming more educated about them and are being tested and therefore more positive tests or whether people are becoming more irresponsible when it comes to safe sex? I have known women who have gotten herpes and genital warts from previous partners these women are not dirty and have gone on to marry and bear children with their husbands. They were up front and before they had unprotected sex both parties had been to their GP to have a full screen for STI's. This is becoming an increasing problem and as they say "they love them warts and all".
2007-01-14 23:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Desperate Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats a tough one.....guess it depends on the std....herpes, they say most people who get it, get it from someone who isnt having an outbreak at the time or doesnt even know they have it. Some people who have herpes dont know they have it bcuz they never get any signs or symptoms of an outbreak ....so to answer ur question.....i duno
2007-01-14 19:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebecca,
Dating someone with an STD is not a problem. It doesn't define who they are. However, safe sex *must* be practiced very carefully, and your friend has to realize the risks of dating someone with an STD.
In some cases, it might not be the boy's fault. But she should be careful as many adolescents tend to be selfish, and he could potentially pass on the STD without much concern for your friend.
2007-01-14 19:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Joesph Robinson 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh.!its a personal questions huh.!?
but to tell you honestly
i enter a relationship without asking my boyfriend if he has std
because if i ask him about that,the fist thing that comes to their mind is SEX.!
and SEX is the major cause why person has std...
having sex with other girls,boys..
well,i want a clean, faithful, and virgin boyfriend to be.!but how will i know that he is one of my wants?
first of sll,it is not important to me if he is virgin or not as long as we are both happy,love each other, honest and trust together
because in a relationship there is an acceptance.!
if at the very first moment he became honest with me that he is not virgin then i accept.
what is the use if your boyfriend is virgin if your not happy with him.?
it doesnt mean that if he is not virgin anymore, he is serching again it from you..well i told it before that it is not SEX why we enter to a relationship...
in the near future, you can have it to your boyfriend (SEX) as long as you have knowledge of acceptance and responsibility.
it is a sin to have live in but if it already happened, then accept it and be responsible to it.
to tell you more,,,,
im very much lucky
because my boyfriend has no std...
yet had no sex to anyone...
2007-01-14 20:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by angel_evilhater 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
feels like she cheated guy simply by fact if she had the STD earlier you and her she wouldve surpassed it directly to you, yet she gets the STD at a similar time as your already along with her and you do not have it
2016-10-20 00:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a disease that you can't ever get rid of I would def have a prob.. If you aren't goin to spend the rest of your life with them you are takin a risk at gettin the disease.
2007-01-15 02:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by lilmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt mind if he had had one in the past but was treated and cured, because sht happens, but I would not date anyone with a current infection, no.
2007-01-17 04:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, would mind because #1 : that means this person I'm seeling isn't "clean" and #2 : if we ever want to get together and do something, I have a chance of acquiring it.
2007-01-14 19:36:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋