I really like this girl, but i dont think i have a chance with her... i dont know wot 2 do???
2007-01-14 01:36:44 · 18 answers · asked by lil_devil_samz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like this girl and i dont think i ahve a chance with her... and the worst thing is, she found out that i fancy her. I dont know wot 2 do? i hardly talk 2 her ecept from msn.
2007-01-15 05:34:49 · update #1
get to know her, become her friend first. try your best to be fun and easy to talk to. but before you guys become great friends, ask her out. lots of times girls wont want to risk good friendships by going into a relationship. just try to be sweet and maybe a little romantic. goood luck :)
2007-01-14 02:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by newyork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not saying this girl will go out with you but you do have chance!! Everyone at least has a chance!! Do something sweet for her even if its something simple!! Spend a little time talking with her and getting to know her! If you already have and your confident you know plenty about her then go for it and ask her out!! Rejection hurts I'll be the first to tell ya but you will never kno unless you ask her!! You will get stronger from the rejection and be able to stand up to the next girl in your path!! Based on how she acts around you...... you can tell if she likes you!! If she seems a goofy and smiley or you find her messing around with you alot she likes you and is probably shy to tell you!! She might be waiting for you to make a move or ask her out already!! LOL good luck!!
2007-01-14 01:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mrgn Michelle<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, try to think positively.
You have to remember that everyone has a chance, and you should give it your best shot.
You dont say how well you know the girl, but try and pick up signs and see if she likes you.
If she seems to flirt with you or give you lingering looks your probably onto a winner.
If you dont know the girl well at all, make an effort to get to know her. Chat to her when you see her and try and see if you hit it off.
Its not always easy but theres a good chance things may work out!
2007-01-14 02:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and positive that you love yourself and you are lovable. Keep talking on MSN, perhaps she likes to likes to share your tastes in music, share jokes, stories, send her a poem, there are many that show love in poetry.com You can send her a card or send a photo or ask her to send a photo to you.
If thats going well then you might think of going out, but what is the rush? I still chat to a friend on the net 10 years since we first chatted, we have kind of grown up, loves and marriages come and go, but we share a friendship across 10, 000 miles.
2007-01-20 04:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by kenjinuk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think you don't have a chance with someone, no one is ever too good for you!!
If you really like this girl then there is only on thing to do, TELL HER!! I know it sounds scary and you are gonna be worried in case she says no but even if she does then at least you had the guts to go for what you want.
Life is too short to keep putting off what you want to do, go for it babe!!
Good luck xxx
2007-01-14 02:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that there is something you'd like to tell her. " I think that you are very special and I'd be kicking myself if I didn't ask . Is there a chance that you could go out with me?" if she woudn't know what to say add that she doesn't have to give you the answer straight away. Don't be afraid to look nervous, if it was me I'd like it better than a cold "go out with me", not everyboy is the same but still... better than not asking at all. If she says no, so what. Good luck
2007-01-14 02:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up and be a man. tell her ! i may not have a chance with you but i just wanted you to know how incredible i think you are and woo her.. Not stalk her!lol
nice guys do finish first sooner or later
Be a man! No guts no glory!
confidence not vanity is attractive read boundries in dating and dr Phil' loving smart. Good luck
2007-01-22 00:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Suggest a time/date/place. If she says yes then turn up on time. If she says no then just say 'no problem' and just chat as normal and do not refer to it again. In a few weeks you will have met someone else.
2007-01-14 01:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to look at it like you are the catch...women like a man with confidence and a sense of humor.....Go up to her and talk to her like a friend...we like to be friends first,well I do anyways. So get to know her and then just ask her out to dinner, buy her flowers, Go watch a movie...JUST ACT CONFIDENT!!!
2007-01-14 01:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might as well ask her out
if shes not a bitchy girl which will spread rumours and make her rejection to you open. then wot do u have to lose?
2007-01-14 01:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Button.Monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋