i think i have an std but the only girl ive had sex with in the last year says she doesnt have anything?

Question

im in the navy and i had sex with a girl on my ship the condom fell off so i put it back on.. than a red spot on my penis showed up and now i have a discharge... i know its an std but the girl i had sex with says shes clean... you think shes lying? i cant tell but is there another way to catch something? and arent stds sexually transmitted? i have never had anything and i have had multiple partners and i always use a condom.. please give me your answers!!!

Answer 1

She may not be showing any symptoms of an STD...more reason for her to go to her OBGYN. Tell her to go get checked...some STD's can make it so a woman can't have children in the future.

If you have only slept with her, than you probably contracted through her.

Answer 2

Yeah, like she's going to say, "Oh, my bad. I forgot to tell you, I'm an STD cesspool." Seriously, it sounds like you may have gonorrhea. It starts with a chancre, an open looking sore found on the penis shaft, and later a discharge. In women it may be hard to detect because the chancre could have been inside the vagina.
I hope you are just fooling around here, already knew that, and just trying to elicit answers for your amusement. If not, WHY DID YOU SLEEP THROUGH SEX ED CLASS? People who don't know enough about STD's to protect themselves should at least know enough to use a condom properly. If it slips off the act is FINISHED unless you have a NEW one to use.
The more energy I put into this question, the less I believe you.
See a doctor IMMEDIATELY and notify the girl of the diagnosis.

BTW, sexually transmitted diseases are ONLY contracted SEXUALLY with the exchange of blood or body fluids. That is why they are called Sexually Transmitted Diseases. A virus like HIV can be passed on through the placenta or by sharing needles or having unprotected sex as can Hepatitis.

Answer 3

She may not be experiencing any symptoms or is too embarraseed to tell you the truth. If you've been honest with her about your symptoms, it's up to her to get herself checked.

Now for you. Don't waste time wondering whether she is lying or whatever. Go to your doctor. You're in the navy, so should be well covered. Be completely honest with the doctor about what you did with this girl, and your personal sexual history. I used to be an STD counselor, and often that very personal information of what happened exactly during sexual intercourse was helpful in understanding risk.

If you plan on having sex again with this girl, use a condom. Review how to use a condom so it does not fall off. It should not. Best of luck.

Answer 4

Do you have discharge coming out of your penis or out of the red spot?.... If its out of your penis yes you have an STD ( Sexually Transmitted Disease) . If it is coming out of the red spot it is still likely you have an std. But it could be injury from friction of the condom rubbing on you or any type of lesion from injury. At any rate I would go to the doc and ask them. I know its scary and embarrassing for you but there is no reason to be. You are one of a bunch of people the doc sees every year with stuff like this wrong. Its just as routine for the doc as somebody coming in with a runny nose. I know I work for a doctor....please go get it checked out! Good Luck!!

Answer 5

it takes a long time for a woman to discover she had std,coz it has no visible sign in a woman,while in men,it takes only 3 days to notice some symptoms.A red spot on your penis is a sure indication of an std disease,l guess syphilis.Please get checked and tell the chick to get checked too before it damages her kidneys and liver

Answer 6

Multiple partners puts you at a higher risk for STD's not to mention that HPV causes cervical cancer in women and penile cancer in men.
People lie, cause they are to embarrassed to tell the truth. When caught up in the heat of the moment, people tend to go for it.
You need to get this looked at and get tested for all them nasties.
Condoms do as you said fall off, all it takes is a small hole, smaller than a pin to allow transmission.
You may want to double up on the condoms and use some K Y in the future. K Y helps it feel more natural.

Answer 7

You could have gotten it from her or from your other multiple partners. Some diseases have a dormancy period where you wouldn't know you had them.
For the records, condoms aren't 100%, they don't protect against some diseases and if it fell off that tells me that you're not putting it on correctly.
See a doctor before you wind up sterile.

Answer 8

she could be lying or she may not even know she has anything. a lot of stds don't show symptoms in women. chlamydia is one that we don't feel symptoms from but if we go to the doctor that's when it's detected. a lot of the stds are like that for women with men on the other hand, will have discharge and painful urination etc. but for the record there are a couple stds you can catch from contact with people who have it and have bad hygeine i.e. herpes if they go to the bathroom and don't wash their hands then you go to the bathroom behind them you not only touched the door but the herpes virus and when you go to pee and touch your genetals you can get herpes. not that it necessarily happens that way often but it can happen. and crabs can jump. (sounds crazy but i learned it in a course i had to take as a requirment when i attended VCU)

Answer 9

never believe a girl on how many guys she has slept with or that she doest have an std..alot of stds are undetectable unless a blood test tells u, but many of them dont have symptoms, keys to look out for is unusual smells, discharge, spots, itchiness, rash, discomfort and pain when urinating, you can never be sure, get cheked . . a little blood test could save ur life if u treat the std early, and stds like clymedia and syphillis can be cured with a simple cheap 2 weeks of anti bi otics, i think she may not be lying, she just mmay not know herself that she is infected as symptoms are all different on each person, she may have no symptms at all and truely believe shes clean. u can catch stds also with a condom on as your testicals rub against there genitals, and needle sharing can pass stds and umm ive heard toilet seats have ben known to pass stds , but its not very likely..

Answer 10

either she is lying or maybe she just doesn't know. Maybe you should get tested together. Not all stds are tranfered just during sex. Oral some kissing, and touching someone with one and then touching yourself could also give you an STD. Also if you have had multiple partners (who hasn't) some stds take a while to show up.