I have just had a lot of issues with my better half and just got my results back from the gyno and have told him but he doesn't seem to sure about us anymore and I don't know where I got this from and he doesn't know if he has it yet. The doctor has prescribed me medicine for this and I will start taking it tomorrow. How do I get my better half to be there for me and my relationship not to go to hell?
2007-01-12 06:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Cutie Pie 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
It came from somewhere....Either he has it or you got it from someone else. But you need someone whose gonna be there for u and if hes not sure then hes just not the right guy for you... A real better half would stick by you no matter what and if hes reacting that way its probably him who gave it to you. I would definately check into that as well.....Always good to know. You cannot make someone be there for you and etc...if he chooses not to let him go..he isnt worth the trouble. You already have enough to worry about....
2007-01-12 10:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Indian/BlackBeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-24 23:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh do I really hate this for you. But it's not the end of the world. If you have something that caused you to die in a few weeks he would leave. I know that he's scared, but reassure him that you were only with him during your relationship{if it's true}, and then you need to let him know that neither one of you were virgins when ya'll got together anything is possible. If he still acts crazy instead of waiting on him to let you go you let him go. There is someone out there who will love you despite what is going on with you. I wish you well. Don't stress out because this causes out breaks as well.
2007-01-12 07:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have this problem, as genital herpes is common.
It's a tough question to answer. Herpes can lie dormant for years and then surface as shingles, a very painful inflammation of the nerves. It can also be passed on to a fetus, which can cause congenital blindness.
You should probably insist on condom use from now on, unless you want to use your hands or mouths on each other (genital herpes is not the same as oral herpes).
Good luck.
2007-01-12 07:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, guess what? HE could have given it to you. You can pass herpes on even if you have never had an outbreak. He could have it and not even know he has it. Of course, if he does have it, he may believe that YOU gave it to him.
How should he react? There is no standard reaction. Come on. How did you expect him to react? Be fine with it?
The good thing is that there is treatment and taking it everyday will help to keep you outbreak free and if he doesn't have it, it will help keep him outbreak free, too.
2007-01-12 06:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, he ought to start taking Valtrex, which will help evade outbreaks (in spite of the undeniable fact that he ought to nonetheless transmit herpes even on meds, or maybe with a condom). i understand an exceedingly suitable woman who married a guy who had herpes, even understanding that she could get it. And particular, she did get it, yet they are nonetheless fortunately married. There are even relationship web pages for people who've STDs to fulfill different singles with STDs. Have your son google around for them - purely verify he wears a condom! I additionally understand a woman who replaced right into a virgin and the 1st guy she slept with had herpes and did no longer tell her, and he or she ended up getting it. She might have stayed with him yet he broke up along with her. specifically, he ought to divulge his well-being info to anybody till now he sleeps with them so they are in a position to make an recommended determination for their very own well-being. He does not, notwithstanding, ought to divulge this tips in the time of the "relationship/relationship" area. If she falls in love with him, she will persist with him, even with the herpes.
2016-10-07 01:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you have that!! :( It is NOT fun! I just found out and I had to tell my bf of 2 years, it was very hard! If he doesn't stay with you after you tell him the news, he is not worth it at all. If he loves you he will expect that things happen!
Good Luck :}
2007-01-12 07:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by katrina r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋