well my boyfriend and i are sexually active... he doesn't use a condom. and im okay with that too.. i have no ways of birth-control method, but i know i wont get pregnant. im just scared that i might have gotten idk aids, or std's from him cause we're not using condoms. also, my boyfriend has had sex with 2 other girls in his lifetime, one caucasion one african american if that matters.
is there any signs of telling if you've gotten some sort of sexually transmitted diseases? i dont want to go to the doctor to check.... and if i do have some sort of STD what are the negative aspects of having it? will i get sick?
thank you, i appreciate it
2007-01-11 08:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Baby girl, get checked out! That's the only way of knowing if you are sick. Use condoms or something if you're afraid that he may have somthing. Honestly, why have sex if you don't know the whole truth to it?
2007-01-11 09:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative aspects are permanent infertility. THERE ARE SO MANY negative aspects, I couldnt possibly list them all. Basically YOU COULD DIE. Syphylis is deadly and so are many more. If hes had 2 sex partners, and he wasnt careful with them either- then there is a good chance you could have something. You need to go to the doctor... and NEXT TIME, have the guy checked out before having unprotected sex with him!!! RESPECT YOURSELF ABOVE ALL ELSE!!!! Just because he wants to have unsafe sex, doesnt mean you have to do it. Even if you love him, he should understand the risks here. If you arent using birth control, then there is NO WAY to guarantee you wont get pregnant especially when you arent using condoms. EVEN IF HE PULLS OUT!!!! So either get on something, or start expecting a cute bundle of ***RUIN YOUR FUTURE*** any day now.
Also... after reading your previous questions, it sounds like your boyfriend has anger issues... and you sound very young. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE UNHAPPY! Everyone dates a guy who isnt good for them, and convinces them to do things that arent good for them either... Even if you both feel like you love eachother, doesnt mean he can respect your body any less. You dont have to give in and be unprotected. Be careful! If you do get something- he would probably leave you and accuse you of cheating and thats how you got it. Guys are like that when they are young... and if you did end up pregnant- It doesnt mean he will stick around, but YOU will be stuck with the baby FOR LIFE.
2007-01-11 16:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about getting a life changin std, then use a condom! Is your life worth risking for a pleasure that lasts maybe 20 minutes? YES if you get infected your whole life will change and its not worth it. i wouldnt go crazy worrying about it hes been with 2 people- there are people out there that have been with 100's. Use a condom.
2007-01-11 21:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kablina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be scared. Just think of it like this.. Not only are you have sex with you boyfriend.. you are having sex with everyone he is having sex with. That is a lot of people. To not care about his using a condom and getting pregnant is just plain immature. Get tested NOW. Tell your boyfriend if he loves you he cares about your welfare and health. He needs to use protection for both of your sakes.
2007-01-11 17:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by flamencochic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd not be asking those questions online! I'd be getting my azz to a Doctor! Take Life Serious! USE protection! If you aren't SURE, your bf is per say clean, I'd be dragging his azz to the Doctor too!! Use your brains people!!! That's what the brain is for after all! Always REQUEST from the "partner" to see their HIV Test Results!!! ~Best Of Luck~ Praying you DON'T have HIV, or any STD's..............Ladies!!? Please, for the sake of your lives and others....... ALWAYS, tell the males, NO GLOVE? NO LOVE!....It's truely that simple!....(*(*Hugs*)*)....*Smiles* â¥
2007-01-11 17:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Peaches ( . ) ( . ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be rude, but you sound pretty ignorant about sex, anyone in your situation should not be having sex. you could get HIV and get very sick, you could get chlamydia and not be able to have babies, you could get syphilis and go insane. i mean come one, respect yourself. getting pregnant might be the least of your worries. EDUCATE YOURSELF go to planned parenthood and they will tell you everything and test you and your boyfriend for stds.
2007-01-12 00:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋