but we have only had oral sex. he hasn't been with any other girls other than me and i have only been with one other guy, and we only had oral sex. what should i do, i feel bad but i don't htink i have one. what do i do?
2007-01-03 16:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by Shelby 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
i know i can get an std from oral sex, my past boyfriend doesn't have one.
2007-01-03 16:52:22 · update #1
my boyfriend went to the doctor and got checked and he does not have an std and everything is good now.
thanks everyone for the help.
2007-01-04 16:24:54 · update #2
Both of you should be tested.
If you have ever had a fever blister or cold sore, then you can pass that virus to him if you have oral sex.
Oral sex can still lead to STDs, deary!
2007-01-03 16:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, think back to when u did it with the other guy and the time u did it with your current boyfriend, did you use a condom? If so then you haven't nothing to worry about the fact that u gave the STD to him(if he has one). Secondly, does your boyfriend have the symptoms of someone with an STD? Does it burn when he pees? Are there bumps or a rash in his groin or anywhere near his mouth? (u can visit a site to find out more) If so, then there is a likely possibility that he has an STD and I would advise the two of you to visit a doctor IMMEDIATELY. The longer you wait, the more serious the STD could get. If there aren't any of the STD symptoms, then I would still advise you to visit a doctor because there are some STD's that are unrecognizable when transmitted. If this is the case, I hope this comes as a close call for you to be careful and treat your body right as well as others'. Best of wishes and good luck.
2007-01-04 01:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Showstopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off go see a doctor. You may not think you have one but thinking you dont have one doesnt guarantee not having one. Out of sight out of mind doesnt work in this situation. Second thing, you can get an STD from oral sex. Yes, you may have contracted something from the previous guy so the both of you need to get checked out.
2007-01-04 00:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by missambitions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you were with, did he have sex, oral, vaginal, or anal with any other girls? An std can come from a long line of people. You don't have to answer this to me, but to yourself will suffice. If so, then it's still possible to have transmit an STD even if from vaginal to oral. It may be that your bf doesn't have an STD but possibly a yeast infection from oral sex with you. Either way I wouldn't be having any kind of sex with him until he's been checked out.
Here's a couple great links you may want to check out.
http://www.teenwire.com/
http://www.sexualityandu.ca/home_e.aspx
2007-01-04 00:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Marie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having oral sex with him. As you said, he is afraid of getting std...
2007-01-04 00:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't been with any other girls and you don't have an STD then how does he figure he has one? If he thinks you might have one then why not get yourself tested so he knows for sure you don't have one.
2007-01-04 00:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why does he think he has one? it weird that he thinks he has one if the only one hes ever been with is you and you dont think you have one. also he could have gotten one if you get cold sores. the best way to know is getting tested it can be scary to go to planned parenthood or whatever i went to the public health department but they are really nice, they would rather have you come in so just go get checked out
2007-01-04 01:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by Twinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some whare in your town should be a health department...get tested say you want everything tested they'll swab your puss...it can hurt a lil...they'll draw blood...but you need to make shure you ask about being tested for hep c...hepatitus c and whatever else is not on the normal tests...either he's scared and paranoid...or he knows he has something and wants you to think he did it...also somethings take even 6 months to show up...in worse cause and it's aids...there will be a cure...not treatment...cure for aids coming out here in 2007 or early 2008...so yeah...peace
2007-01-04 01:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by M B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get tested. If he's afraid he has an STD, and not from you, then he might be lying about you being the first.
2007-01-04 00:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral sex can transmit many STDs.
http://www.doctorgoodskin.com/ds/stds/
rather than worrying consult an expert.
2007-01-04 04:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋