I've been withthis guy for 3 years. He's still legally married. He told me he didn't believe in marriage if you don't have children, however, he didn't have children with his 2 previous marriages. I'm not saying he's the perfect man for me but I find this an insult. It's not as if I'm a troll, if anything the opposite. Should I hang around until he gets off his but and dumps his wife? Or should I just move on?
2006-12-30 23:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by meganzopf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on!!!!!!! This guy is playing with your emotions. If he was truly serious about you he would have been divorced by now...he's giving you excuses and it's time to call his bluff. Get out now before he hurts you any more and before you waste anymore time on him.
2006-12-31 00:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that he is not the perfect man for you, don't worry about his opinion. If you are dealing with him because he is Mr. Right Now and not Mr. Right, dont let it bother you. However if you are hanging around waiting for things to change, take what he is saying as a sign that you may be wasting your time and move on.
2006-12-31 08:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey wake up and smell the wasted years. This guy is not gonna marry you andeven if he did why would it be any different than his previous marriages. Look at it he is married now and he is cheating with you. If you get him all you have is a proven cheater. Stop the nonsense. If you want to waste more time stay with him. Please for your sake break up with this bum and try to find you a real man that will be yours and only yours. You have wasted 3 primetime years don't waste what is left to you.
2006-12-31 08:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already know the answer to this, but I will tell you in case you still have some lingering doubt. MOVE ON.
He is a liar and cheat. Why would you possibly want to remain with him? Go out and find someone who is worthy of your time and love, and consider yourself lucky to not be tied to him. In a roundabout way, he is doing you a great favor by NOT marrying you. It will save you much heartache in the future.
Good luck
2006-12-31 08:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you wanna marry a guy who's failed at it twice? You're being unreasonable. If you just want a husband, go find someone who is ready right now and put on the big white dress, princess! That's what it's all about anyway. Marriage is such a hell hole. I can see why he wouldn't want to hook up *for death do we part* to a nag like you.
2006-12-31 08:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You realize, that outside of what you want, this is disrespectful to his wife as well as your own reputation. Ohh, he doesn't have kids. Well, he popped a rock on somebody's finger and he's got to stick to it. Jeez, what's he do. Propose to every new girl he meets? If you stay and end up marrying him, pray to God you have kids within the first week, otherwise he's probably already gone.
2006-12-31 08:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years???Married??? 2 previous marriages??? That's 3 strikes! Now, don't walk away from this.......RUN!!
2006-12-31 08:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN YOUR EYES!! ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!! He's cheating with you and he'll cheat on yo.What in the hell are you doing involved with a married man anyway? DUMP his *** and move on!
2006-12-31 08:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by blueflash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...he is a pig and using you.
2006-12-31 08:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋