Is it acceptable for an aunt to kiss an 8 month old baby's bare privates everytime there is a diaper change? Is this sick, or am I over analyzing something I saw?
2006-12-30 23:54:16 · 21 answers · asked by Das 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sick! This was definitely done in her family and she thinks it is normal. Innappropriate touching is wrong. I don't think she is getting sexually gratified by this but she is way out of line. It is probably what she was accustomed to in her family. She needs a talking to and since she is oblivious and doing it in front of people she will need to be talked to by proper authorities in this matter. Child Protective Services. Call and speak with a social worker and let them know your dilemma. Good luck and keep her away from children!
2006-12-31 01:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by stacey h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not overanalyzing at all....you are following your instincts. In no situation is this alright!!! Like a few people mentioned, kissing the hiney cheeks...ok.....Kissing the actual private???? Come on!!! Please don't put the infant in a situation to allow this to happen ever again!!! This is definite child abuse on part of the Aunt. Please don't let it continue knowing what you do. You would be partly responsible for something even worse happening to the baby. You have a responsibility to protect the baby now that you know.
2006-12-31 00:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that sounds a little weird..ive seen kisses on the belly even the thigh or maybe the bottom in a playful manner if the baby is running around naked....but on the bare privates everytime she changes him...thats weird and being the mother..i would have to atleast ask her why she does this...b/c that would be too uncomfortable for me!
2006-12-30 23:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens everytime i would be concerned. However if it only happened once i'd still be concerned.
This is unusual and could be considered a sexual crime against a child.
Keep the baby away from the aunt, if this can't be done, talk to the aunt tell her if she does it again, you'll report her to law enforcement.
2006-12-31 00:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not ok, very inappropriate and abusive. What the heck is wrong with this women. I would not leave my child alone with her, she has major issues. And maybe even a history of child sexual abuse. You need to do some investigating and never leave any children alone with her. I would call child protective services in to do a complete investigation. Are their children in her care? Please do the right thing and protect these children. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-30 23:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little kiss or pat on the bottom is ok but not the privates....that's wierd.
2006-12-31 00:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the aunt not to do that or stay away
2006-12-31 01:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by white dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the aunt around the kid anymore. Let her know that is offensive and ask her why does she do it.
2006-12-30 23:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you are not over analizing anything. Keep that sick B*tch away from your child
2006-12-30 23:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its bizzarre and odd. I hope this in not your child. If it is don't let auntie change his diapers.
2006-12-30 23:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋