How do take someone calling you boring,when throughout the relationship you wanted to try and do more things they were not up to it because they was so tired,now that i gotten comfortable not doing anything now i'm boring the things i wanted to do and go with him i did with other people because he wanted sleep or play video games or hang with his friends all the time.
2006-12-30 23:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ma_gila i'm at work doing nothing during my downtime not home. Never assume okay
2006-12-30 23:50:28 · update #1
get a new and better boyfriend
2006-12-30 23:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about him calling you boring.
You tried to do interesting things in the beginning of the relationship.
But he wanted to play video games and sleep all day.
Try one more time to initiate interesting outings for you two to do.
If he claims he his too tired than, there is nothing you can do.
I would move on, after this. In relationships things usually don't get better, they get worst. As that new feeling has wore off.
2006-12-31 07:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are he probably won't change the habit of sleep and video games.( I was in this sort of relationship once, and can tell you from experience that is probably the case.) I wouldn't worry too much about his opinion of your activity level. It sounds like a pot calling the kettle black situation to me.
Just because he likes to sit in front of a game or sleep his life away doesn't mean you are tied to doing the same thing. Hopefully, your relationship is strong enough to allow both of you to pursue your own interests, separate from each other, if need be. Definitely go out and have fun, without him if necessary, after inviting him to go along with you.
Good luck
2006-12-31 08:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one who's boring. I wish I could get my girlfriend to do different things. You're not happy with this guy, find some one exciting. He loves his friends and video games more than you. How pathetic is that?
2006-12-31 07:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the fact you are home asking questions on nye and not out partying, at 23, suggests to me he may be right. you are boring. i have an excuse, young children, ever tried getting a baby sitter nye. then again i could have got you.
2006-12-31 07:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one of those catch 22's my firend not a whole lot that you can do i'm afraid about the past however you'll have to get "uncomfortable " doing nothing! and get active again.
2006-12-31 07:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Im Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is simply not interested in your input in the relationship and doesnt want you to make it better.Sit and talk to him about it and if he doesnt want to listen then theres only one thing to do-leave!
2006-12-31 08:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by shellybelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I don't know the answer!
2006-12-31 08:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋