We are very close to each other. We love each other but those are unsung feelings, not very vocal. There is something beyond frendship. He is very busy with his project now and I feel he is moving away and does not love me like he did. We quarrel constantly. He is a busy person and doesnt have time for himself even. In all this , I feel left out and alone. Is there a problem with me, am I thinking or taking him wrong or do strongest relations also wear after some time?
2006-12-30 23:16:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You quarrel constantly? Wow, sounds like a fun relationship. Can't wait for tomorrows battle! Are you hearing what you say? Why would any person want to stay in a relationship like that? "But I love him." Toro poo poo! Wake up & smell the coffee honey. Relationships start out on a high and stay there or slip down. this is your high & down is the only way it's going. stop waisting time. move on. Believe or not there are folks out there that get along with out daily battles. They are called "happy". Try it, you may like it?
2006-12-30 23:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by lola bunny phd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not the ones who can answer you. You and your man should figure things out. My man is a busy guy too. I talked to him about this lots of times without quarrel. I thinked about: He's busy, do I want a busy bf? Is this kind of relationship that I want? How to make him understand that I feel alone and neglected?; and he thinked about: I'm busy, do I have a right priorities? Is this girl important to me or my work? How to make her happy and not protesting me for being busy? etc etc
We adjusted ourselves for the first 2 years before we got it right.
I suggest you talk about it with him, don't quarrel, don't nag, it will only drive him away. Talk with logic, calmly, find a way to make him understand, what's the problem and how to handle it. Tell him things like you're going to be understanding and patience with him being busy but you also want him to understand how you feeling.
2006-12-31 11:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question to answer,my main concern would be have you taken a step back to see if you are crowding him too much or do you think he doesn`t know just how you feel about him at this moment in time?we humans do get complicated n it can take a long time to really find the one that matters & get on the same wavelength.
2006-12-31 07:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you --- i think he must get his priorities in order ---- for me it was always work and the children and guess what i lost my wife ---- so what is more important to both of you --- your relationship or other things???
2006-12-31 07:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋