2006-12-30 23:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by shape_spartan82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men who know how to have a serious and playful personality attracts me. I also admire a man who knows how to be humble.
2006-12-30 23:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOhhh fun question! This is me so technically... girls are all different! We can't all feel the same, but When I meet a guy that can hold a strong, interesting conversation, can make me laugh and is generally nice, I am instantly attracted. As things go further, I also like it is guys turn out to have a small vulnerable streak, and I like it if they trust me with things they dont tell many people, like secrets and fears. Once we're good friends, compliments are accepted, but have to be discreet, i somehow don't feel very complimented if they come straight out and say "youre a really hot chick, I dream about you" funny that... Also, a deep guy is awesome, but also rare to find!! Like comments about what they think about after death and about the world, but that's most likely just me alone there haha
2006-12-31 07:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no list to give you showing what girls want in a guy. What I like might be what turns others off. For instance I like facial hair, many of my friends do not. I don't want to date Godzilla but I don't care about looks or clothes as much as some others might.
There is no right or wrong just a matter of finding who fits with you. when you see someone you like, you can ask them what they like and you will get an answer that will serve you better than what you can get from this. Good Luck, she is out there somewhere, I promise.
2006-12-31 07:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... that differs from person to person.if you are talkin bout looks then i guess some girls like rugged looks... the tall dark n hansome type while soft spoken and really feminine girls go for the chocolate boy look. But we DEFINITELY dont like guys who show of their brawn more than their brains.....it's just yuckkkk. Generally all girls notice a guy's dressing sense first.. and evn before that... THEIR SHOES!! Eyes an body language shud b very sober.. Guys with a good sense of humour are definitely very attractive...Chivalry an respect for women is a must( we hate MCPs- male chauvanist pigs!!). an last but not the least....
just be yourself!!!
2006-12-31 07:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by sonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect man nor a certain thing or things that attract women to men. It's all about how we are brought up, who was or wasn't in their lives growing up and who we've had a relationship with in the past. There is no way to unlock all of us women because we adapt and change and need different things at different times in our lives. We are complicated. There is no sure fire way to seduce women but a way to seduce a woman all depends on where she is in life.
2006-12-31 07:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In terms of immediate attraction on a physical basis... it's a well groomed fella, I don't care if he is in blue jeans and a lumberjack jacket or an Armani suit... his grooming shines through.
In terms of intrinsic values that make me desire a relationship with him... it the guys' strength of character does it for me... all the "right stuff"; integrity, patriotism, compassionate, moral fiber.
2006-12-31 07:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knows what he wants, is aggressive, great communicator, good in bed ;) (that can be learned though) honest, high morals, treats others well thats what attracts me, like Brent tonight so blunt and not ashamed to admit that he wants more than anything to be married, that turns me on not a man who has to sit on a rock and ponder his thoughts for the next year, oh my...
2006-12-31 07:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by laura k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly.. i see the way they communicate.. i love guys who know how 2 create an atmosphere.. n guys who... have sense of humor... not as a clown or ehat but maybe some guy who enjoys talking.. n for sure their smile.. they way they treat women.
2006-12-31 07:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to honestly say its the personailty and the fact that they have chosen me out of all the other girls to talk to etc etc and how they charm me...no point in being with someone who looks good but cant have a convo with ya!!..definately personality
2006-12-31 07:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by the nice girl 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intelligent, wise, and knows how to carry a good conversation, coz it's very rare for me to find a guy who possesses these qualities... a sensible guy, that is... also, being neat, well-dresser, kindhearted, understanding, polite and gentleman is a plus...
2006-12-31 07:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Carte Blanche 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋