ok well im oly 13 and im already having a boy crisus his name is cody we went out last year and it was so fun we clicked right away and he liked me in the begining of the year and i said no when he asked me out but i wasnt really sure because he just kept looking at me and nodding his head yes like he did last year and im not sure if thats what he ment but if it is im totaly scewed because i like him now and dont know what to do because he has a gf that i can easily get him not to like and like me but im not sure how to go about it and i want him to notice me and talk to me instead of when ever i come in talking distance he calls me a dike or a slut which im not but hes jk when he says it because if i get mad and take it serious he tells me hes jk and hes sorry and he intentionaly bumps into me in the hallways to get my attention and talk i just dont kno what to do cause he has a gf now and im not really sure if i can still get his attention n he always asks me for money in lunch......
2006-12-30 22:12:06 · 6 answers · asked by pyro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop beating around the bush. Get him alone and just tell him how you feel. Hey dude, I like you! Use your own words, but put it to him in his face. There, you told him. it's out in the open and the ball is in his court. no more wondering what if for weeks....
Straight, to the point always works with dudes. Beat around the bush or drop hints & they get confused.
I bet after you tell him he'll dump that other chick fast! Go for it. Win or loose, it's over & you're not wasting time for him to wake up. Now go get him!
2006-12-30 22:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by lola bunny phd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to like my answer, but you are really too young to be concerned with such issues as this today. You should be having fun with your girlfriends, making plans for your future. That is what is really important at this stage in your life. The very last thing any guy likes, especially at your age is to be chased by a girl. It is a real turn off to them. Besides, it sounds like he is just playing you. Only nice to you when asking for money? Don't be fooled! Focus on making yourself happy. I know, as I said this is not what you want to hear and I know that you probably won't take my advise, as everyone must learn the hard way, as will you. Sorry if this sounds harsh as I don't mean for it to.
Take care and try to be happy with who YOU are and forget the boys for a while. When you are older and hopefully one day in college, you will look back on this and see that I was right.
2006-12-30 22:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so the best way to get his attention is to ignore him. He clearly wants your attention. If you give it to him, like his gf does, then he'll go away and find someone else to get attention from, like he's doing right now with his gf. He wants what he can't have, so be that.
2006-12-30 22:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am preety sure ur just having a crush on him.. its not love.. u see.. even u urself said u like him.. not love him.. so just move on with life n see how many wonderful guys waiting for u in future.., so so so so.. just let him be .. he even ask u for money.. omg. i hope u didnt give him..i guess he must be a cute guy uhh??
2006-12-30 22:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you haven't got your "period " yet. Just joking. Try just talking, instead of head nodding and all that.
2006-12-30 22:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by stringer_G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you even want him? or are u just jealous coz some other girl has him and you want to prove something... i ask since you rejected him before
2006-12-30 22:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋