Which do you prefer? Why?
2006-12-30 22:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give me assertive any day. Which one are you?
2006-12-30 22:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm aggressive and I'd like an aggressive guy. He doesn't have to be a bulldozer (I would NOT like that), but I believe that you need to take hold of the things that you want, and I don't want him twisting his hands in the corner all of his life, you know? It's okay if he's shy and indirect (as long as I get him and he's open with me after some time), but he needs to be a doer and passive people, by definition, are not doers.
2006-12-31 06:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence & assertiveness win out every time. Being passive denotes la lack of confidence. Too agressive & someone may think you are over compensating for something. A little bit of aggression if fine in certain situations. Passive is never good - if you were pursuing me & you were too passive, I may think that you're not that interested.
2006-12-31 06:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about somewhere in the middle for i don't like guy's that are too Pasive or to Aggresive but i do like a guy that knows how to be a little of both when the sittuation and time is right for there are men out there that know when to be passive and when to be aggresive and those are the men that I find sexy
2006-12-31 06:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people has different taste.. as for aggresive girls they prefer passive guys.. cuz if both the male n female r pasive then problems wud occur. n passive girls likea aggresive guys as they cheer them up. so in a relation its like.. 1 have 2 be the passive one n the onther 1 have 2 be the aggresive 1.. but its my pov.. i dont knw what other people thinks..
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2006-12-31 06:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something a little inbetween perhaps?
You don't want them to beat you up but you don't want to walk all over them either. Probably prefer slight lean to aggressive as would see him as protector and also means more room for conversation if he's slightly argumentative!
2006-12-31 06:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by cybachic2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mainly passive but they have to have some aggression
2006-12-31 06:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
passive. agressive guys tend to "overdo" their manliness. i mean, being passive also means quiet or problems. it all goes down to if you really like the guy, you would know which type you're into.
2006-12-31 06:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In between..I like a man that can bend but stands his ground when he needs to. That is the making of the perfect man for me...still a man but a man who has emotions.
2006-12-31 06:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh neither - I want an assertive man who knows what he wants and asks for it but doesnt run over me to get it.
2006-12-31 06:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A balance between both.
2006-12-31 06:39:09 · answer #11 · answered by imacutie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋