The problem I have is that I have not dated in about 12yrs.Most women are turned off by my size(I'm around 330lbs)I'm losing weight
slowly.More then once I have been described as below average looking male.Also when they find out I can't work because of my health,or I use a nasal c-pap machine at night no one wants to have anything to do with me.How can I over come my being so lonely?I'm tired of being single.I'll be turning 40 next spring and I'm
still alone.Please help,I'm going crazy!
2006-12-30 21:25:39 · 4 answers · asked by snugglebear20032004 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
http://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/index.cfm?track=VT00518................I hope this link works, but if it doesn't, just go to www.bbpeoplemeet.com......you need to research the web for other sites, that have people in your same boat..there are a lot of women who really love big loving men....so go and see what there is and let someone love you for YOU not how much you weigh...God Bless sweetheart, and have a wonderful, LOVING new year!
2006-12-31 00:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering, since you can't work, do you get out of the house much? If you don't or can't that would definitely make it much harder to meet people. What about online dating services? IF you can get out, what about joining a club that involves some hobby you like? Or how about doing volunteer community work or meeting someone at church (if you go, that is)?
I truly believe that there is someone for everyone. I have also found, through my own life's experiences, that when you are NOT looking, that is the time when you meet someone. I think it's because you are truly being yourself and don't seem desperate to find someone, which is more appealing.
Just some thoughts. Good luck to you.
2006-12-31 06:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by passin thru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,there are a lot of women with health problems, or others but they are still very precious like you,. you can find one and help her because I think they are also very lonely. and another think your size and health problems are not that important, try to work on your personality it will also help. take care, and happy new year.
2006-12-31 05:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww..
thats sad
well i think you should find a woman who is in the same condition as you
or if u can only find a guy then be gay with him
id rather be homosexual then alone =]
2006-12-31 05:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea O 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋