they've been chatting before we got together and he's still talking to her. they've met up a few times too. and she said he talked about marriage with her, ect. i told him not to talk to her anymore but i found out he's still talking to her. what do i do?
2006-12-30 20:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a new bf.
The guy can't be trusted.
2006-12-30 20:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your sadness on your bf. that's perplexing to have faith that even "effective adult adult males" are tempted by utilising their sexual innovations or maybe provide in to temptation, christian or no longer. You reported which you 2 additionally produce different issues and that your bf would not think of you're spouse cloth. Why are you nevertheless allowing your self to be his "spouse w/o marital privileges" in case you're desirous to get married to this guy? it is your existence and a few time to waste, yet once you recognize what you pick and it truly is been 4 years - tell him to make the dedication or pass on with your existence and supply somebody else a wager. intercourse and adult adult males will consistently be no longer uncomplicated as they have greater effective sexual urges then women individuals do yet no longer all adult adult males cheat while given the prospect to accomplish that. attempt to endure in innovations that and not decide all adult adult males by utilising your bf's movements, perplexing because it may desire to be. solid success.
2016-10-28 19:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by bason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. Either she goes or you go.
If I were you, I'd probably just go, but try talking to him about it. maybe there is something you're missing. If he feels for her, and would do it behind your back, then he's probably not ready to be dating anyone and you certainly shouldn't settle for less. Do yourself a favor and date someone who's SO into you that it's not even a question, why would you want anything less?
2006-12-30 21:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He' human. He will talk to whom ever he wants to no matter aht anybodys says. You have to give him an ultimatum. Let him know it's you or her and If he continues talking to her then you will leave him (and you actually have to mean it). He will get the hint. If he's doesnt then move on because he really doesn't want you and wants her. Hopefully everything works out for you two. Good luck.
2006-12-30 21:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You found him out, asked him to stop chatting with this girl and he still does so. He obviously doesn't respect your wishes so why continue to date a guy who disrespects you. Leave him and find someone better.
2006-12-31 01:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step into Shirley's Therapy office and take a seat...you have come to the right place. I just spent $700.00 to fly back east over Thanksgiving to stay with an old boyfriend who invited me because he said he still loved me. After I spent 2 days with him he told me he had met someone else, and his cell phone rang constantly while I was with him. He would charge it at night, and then unplug it and sneak downstairs with it early in the morning to call her. My advice from personal experience...he's not worth it, because you are not worth it to him, and you need to respect yourself to be worth something to someone else. My lesson cost me, you can still get out with an investment in yourself.
2006-12-30 21:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm that would be for you to leave him or are you that pathetic to stay and show that you have no respect for yourself what so ever.. there are allot better men out there then that, he is not the only man left in the world and he is a loser at that :) :) :)
2006-12-30 21:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u care your just his shack up honey who he dosent love enough 2 marry because he thinks u are just a free ride 2 the bedroom
2006-12-30 21:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear just give him an Ultimatum ... let him choose between u n her ... if he doesn't change ...dump him yaar ...
There r many eligible guys to go around wid
2006-12-30 21:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Nikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find nothing wrong with talking to a man, online or otherwise. BUT the man needs to be honest about, if you make it dirty, then it is dirty.
2006-12-30 21:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋