I dumped my boyfriend a week or so ago because he was being really moody, he told me he wasn't sure of his feelings for me and thought he liked a girl he went out with before, now hes saying he still really likes me and wants to go back out with me, i still like him but whether to go back out with him or not? Please help? :]
2006-12-30 20:55:47 · 18 answers · asked by Cate w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just as women get PMS moodiness, men get IMS moodiness - it's been proven....give him a seconnd chance if he did not cheat on you.
However, if he did cheat on you, u know the saying - once a cheater, always a cheater - the trust is gone then.....
But if u 2 like each other and want to get back together - i c no harm if he's not cheated and if he's been honest to you. Afterall, every honest person deserves a second chance
2006-12-30 21:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can get confused about their feelings......have been going through this with my teenage daughter! He has had a week without you and has realised that its you he wants. You could give him a second chance but take things slowly and explain that he really hurt you. Establish that he no longer has feelings for his EX! You don't want to think you are second best. At the end of the day you still like him and its YOU he wants and not his Ex! Good Luck!
2006-12-30 21:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by KAZ M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did right to walk away because he sounds either confused or really insensitive.
He probably wants to keep you on a string until he has worked out his feelings for both you and this ex of his. Don't put up with it, you've shown him you're no door mat by dumping him so stay strong and don't go back.
You deserve more, happy hunting in the new year x
2006-12-30 21:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control of the situation. Ask yourself if he has ever been like this before, will he ever be like this again, could you cope if he did. Find out about the other girl, if she rejected him, you would be second best and no one deserves to be in that position. See him under your terms, be a bit distant to show him that you are back with him because you want to be and not because you need to be. most impoertantly keep your self respect, don't put yourself in a situation where you could be hurt.
good luck in whatever way you decide to play this
2006-12-30 21:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by kelly f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, but you take control on this one
if you get back with him, warn him it's his last chance and you won't be strung along! everybody needs a break away to work out what we really want. i say give it a shot!!
Good luck and all the best for the new year for the both of you xx
2006-12-30 21:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know its upto you. You are gonna do what you want anyway. I lent money to a bloke which I wont get back because I thought I could keep him it ran into thousands and I dont think Ill get it back though. Police cant do anything about it. Upto now he just walks in and out of my life
2006-12-31 01:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Hybrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance, but lay down your thoughts on his moodiness.
2006-12-30 21:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him? You still like him? He's not sure about you? He really likes you? Sounds like both of you don't know what you want. Stay single.
2006-12-30 21:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to, which I think you do, go on and go out with him. But, don't go as his girlfriend, just go as a friend until you feel you can trust him again. If he can't give you the time you need before you allow him that close to your heart again, you don't need him.
2006-12-30 20:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by graff_monster@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves a 2nd chance ( except killers). Give him a 2nd chance and if he does it again drop him for good. He's not worth you time if he's going to waist it.
2006-12-30 20:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋