... we had only met eachother for a few hours and we ended up staying together all night. This morning e told me he loves me.......What to do?
2006-12-30 20:40:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm i don't know...a few hours and he's in love....i really don't know, if i were you i would give it some time, he may be one of these people who are clingy and possessive and controlling, i mean saying he's in love after a few hours is a bit weird...but if your happy, then good....happy new year
2006-12-30 20:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date him.
2006-12-30 20:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~~~~~~~~ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down a little bit, sounds like you are both going at quite a speed. All sorts of things can happen on the first night and people can get 'lost in the moment.' Get to know eachother a bit more first. If this love is meaningful, it will last.
2006-12-31 00:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sounds like rather a whirlwind. I wish that sort of thing happened to me!!
Only you can tell if he seems genuine... and only you know what you want and how you feel about him.
My romantic side says if you really like him give him the benefit of the doubt and enjoy your time together, who knows where it could lead.... my cynical side says be careful as you obviously don't know him very well after a few hours and go slow to avoid getting hurt.
Whatever you decide to do follow your heart and good luck to you.
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2006-12-30 23:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the love of god give him a wide berth! He strikes me as being needy, no one can really say and mean i love after one night. Explain politely that what he said was a bit heavy considering you have only just met, but be gentle as this will probably upset him.
If you think you might actually like the bloke, tell him that you would like to see him again, but as flattering as it may be to have someone who wants to hang of your arm, if he asks to see you alot (especially in the early days) he is probably abit too clingy.
I personally would be freaked out and would be running for the hills.
2006-12-30 20:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does not happen after a few hours.
You may have had a great night together but put your feet back on the ground and re-asses in a few days times.
Good luck
2006-12-30 21:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people 'just connect' ! I doubt he knows the meaning of love in just a few hours but you obviously have made an impression on him. Meet him again and take things slowly! I met my husband under similar circumstances.......he didn't tell me he loved me THAT quickly but we just knew we wanted to be together. 18 years on and we are still together!
2006-12-30 21:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by KAZ M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN! thats a bit too fast if hes saying he loves you already. suggest having a few dates...in the day time and see how you get on.
This guy could turn out to be a complete nutter, you dont know him at all!
2006-12-30 22:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100% with Gringopet above ...Co ..you are a push over aren't you..you met a guy last night .and to day you gone all gooey..has it occurred to you to wait a couple of months ..see where it goes
2006-12-30 20:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love. Get to know each other and find out more about each other. Once you've done this look deep into yourself and see how you feel about him. It's possible it could be love at first site but u need to make sure before making any drastic decisions
2006-12-30 20:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋