I Know most will be a Smart a** answer But I know this already so Answer it On what you think. My friend Is going out with a girl and she has been very stand offish lately. Anyways she has a few kids from her EX Husband. Now Her Ex's sisters kid Wants to go out with her. She is 36 he he just turned 22. Her kids call him uncle. Now even though they are not blood related per say. Do you think this is a good thing to do? I have asked her and she told me If she did it that it would only be for sex and thats it. She did kiss him and not a peck on the lips it was a KISS. She said I told him NO No this is a bad Idea. But she is still saying she is going to sleep with him. I think its wrong But my friend does not see it that way. Im wondering what anyone else thinks. I Know he loves her but I just dont understand.
2006-12-30 20:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by Kos 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY Yea its still wrong but could make a good hour of TV
2006-12-30 20:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by bm10842000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..sounds rather complicated, and I don't think that anything you say, or anyone else, will change this woman's mind. If that's her decision, then she'll be held accountable for the consequences that lie ahead for her.
What she does will come back on her, if it's the wrong thing to do, but in any case, I think that she's an adult and will have to make that choice on her own.
I think it sounds a bit strange, but....I'm not going to make any judgement calls on this, other than to say this woman sounds like she needs some counselling, because if she's in it for the 'sex' and the Ex's sister's son is in it for the long haul, then there's going to be some problems!
I think her kids are going to be the ones to pay for her decision, in the end, though. I feel bad that she doesn't have the strength to say "no" to this kid, and find someone else, outside of her Ex's family!! Maybe she has some issues around 'men' and is doing this out of vengence of her Exhusband? It sounds like she has some underlying issues around her Ex!
But it is a sad scenario, though....
2006-12-30 20:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok speaking from a MORAL point of view, it's disgusting. This GROWN woman who should have more common sense, is going to be with a 22 year old for sex??? Can't she find someone her OWN age for that? Why does she have to screw up someone else's life. If she wants to screw up her own, FINE but don't bring down someone else with you. Yeah age doesn't matter but it's not just about age. It's about mental capacity and maturity. She has kids and he doesn't, the mental capacity right there is 2 very different levels!
2006-12-30 20:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong, she will not only be hurting the young man by just playing with his affections but will also be jeopardizing is relationship with her children. She needs to think with her mind not her libido, It also sounds like she has some serious issues concerning her ex, and this sounds like just payback to him, by causing trouble in his family, what she is not considering is that this young man may not be blood related but since her kids call him Uncle the believe in the family ties.
2006-12-30 20:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 19:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There appears today to be a lot of people doing a lot of things that they shouldn`t be doing n because life is too short to worry about consequences I suppose it won`t matter what we type on here it will take place whether you are asking that it is right or not well, you know the answer already.
2006-12-30 23:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to have a little fun and I'm all for women going for younger guys but not when it would create an even nastier web of confusion in relationships.
2006-12-30 20:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by EleanorRigby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely Jerry Springer material to me.
It's wrong!!
2006-12-30 20:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by STEPHANIE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the 22 year old your freind?
2006-12-30 20:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what are you asking? is this your friends gf thats going to cheat on him with ther ex brother in law? I dont get it
2006-12-30 20:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by Makon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋