I have had people even say that I am "gay" just because I choose to be single. Even people in the church have said this about me. Well, I was overwhelmed with hatred and laughter at the same time! Because of course I'm not gay!! I just think that nobody: Is more faithful than God himself! I would like to think that being the bride of Christ will do a person much more good than any human being ever could. And in the Bible it even says its better for a man to be single. But this society says that if you are single, you are a sicko! A pedophile, or a homosexual. But sexual obsession is the source of pedophillia. People get so addicted to pornography and sex that it becomes a drug! The more they get the more they want! And then they want to experience even further and harm children! Its a sick world! But why would I be a weirdo just because I do not want to have anything to do with sexual pleasure? At least not at the moment! I mean if there is a such thing as "right one" mabe?
2006-12-30 20:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Peter as far as the "human nature" thing goes its also Human Nature to kill! Would you kill the man next door and tell the cops you are only "human"? Oh Yeah! and this thing you call "human nature" infects people with deadly diseases like HIV!! I guess its human nature to take the risk huh? Just because something is "human nature" does not make it right! And sense I had a bad experience as a child myself, I can say that sexual lust is absolutely evil!!!
2006-12-30 20:37:05 · update #1
I think that sex is okay if you are married to the right one!
2006-12-30 20:38:21 · update #2
Listen.......people that "push" you to do things are just miserable. I am happily married with no kids, but when people who are miserable with kids ask us "when will you have kids" they just want to see others in their boat of misery, no time to travel, etc. Don't listen to people, more than half the people married or with someone wish they were single, trust me. You don't owe anyone anything. Misery loves company.
best of luck...............and do things on "your" terms not someone elses.
2006-12-30 20:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to choose to be single, and personally nobody have the right to judge you for what you choose. Some peoples want to take there times or only due of bad experience. Or again they just want to single, and take the life the way it is. It's normal. And don't feel bad because of that.
2006-12-31 01:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society has conditioned people to believe that true happiness stems from couplehood. But in my world, singlehood is the preferred way of life. I never want to get married or have any serious relationship. I have more important things to do. But I know how you feel — a couple of guys think I'm a lesbian because I told them, "I don't date."
2006-12-31 03:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, I was married 6 years and now divorced. So, I am enjoying my single life alone, with no men. That doesnt make me gay just because I havent slept with anyone since my divorce. (At least no one ever talk to me about it too my face). Plus, I have no kids yet and it makes life some mucj enjoyable! Based on experience,enjoy your single life, either way, its worth it!!!
2006-12-30 20:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u sound like me. I'm single and people think I'm gay because of that. just have fun With your life don't let other people influence ruin your life. even my closet friends think I'm gay. just wait for the right girl and she'll be worth it. good luck and a happy new year.
2006-12-30 20:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There'n nothing wrong with being single, maybe God has the right girl for you later on in your life, trust me you'll meet the right girl =)
2006-12-30 20:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you seem like a dork.
Nothing wrong with being single except you will never procreate or experience what nature has for you.
I think you might be using religion as a way to deflect criticism about your fear of females and intimacy.
You are missing something in your life that you probably never got in school or at home.
2006-12-30 20:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I think that everyone has a right to make an individual choice as long as it does not hurt others. So, if you feel that singledom is your authentic choice, it sounds fine to me.
2006-12-30 20:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like ur dammed if u do and dammed if you dont kind of thing ...individuals like to judge that's all. It shouldnt bother you unless you let it.
2006-12-30 20:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have lots of friends that are single and proud of it. If you want to be single be single. and dont let anyone chang your mind.
2006-12-30 20:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Cyrus The Great 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋