There is the girl i like in school but i cant talk to here because im afraid she might call me a dork and leave. I need help ,and i have tried giving her gifts.
2006-12-30 20:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by videocole10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i talk to her i get all red and people laugh and i want to retreat to a hole and never be seen again
2006-12-30 20:16:22 · update #1
if you have anyything else you want to tell me aim me my screen name is videocole13
2006-12-30 20:19:00 · update #2
i am a girl (14)and i was
in situations like that. when
i liked a boy but i am so afraid
of rejection. so what. i took a chance
and now we are going out! you
only have one life. take chances.
you might never know how perfect
something might turn out to be
and if it does go wrong just brush it off
your shoulder and go for a girl who you deserve.
it she does that, that means shes just shady
she should give u a chance.
good luck :)
2006-12-30 20:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVING HER GIFTS?
You have to relax. You don't have to try and win her over with money and crap like that. Even if you do succeed, you'll have a relationship built on something completely unreal, shallow and unstable like greed and money.
No. You do the normal way and talk to her, become her friend, ask her out. If she calls you a dork and leaves, then she isn't even worth asking out, trust me. A worthy girl wouldn't just leave a guy hanging like that. That's cruel.
2006-12-31 04:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a quote to think about...
"if you let your fears keep you from flying, you will never reach your 'high'"
this could be a big step for you. ask the girl out, if she does call
you a dork, then why do you like her anyways. start a casual
convo. and PLEASE be yourself!! im a teenage girl and hate
guys that do whatever they can to impress me, just be yourself.
if you hear her and her friends talkin about music for example
and you love that music, later that day go up to her and ask
"hey i heard you like brittany spears".. lol you get the point right?
just dont be afraid, because then you'll be afraid for the rest
of your life, this could seriously be a life-changing experience
whether she says "yes' or "no" for the date you plan =]
good luck, have fun, & happy new year
2006-12-31 04:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL omg
go and talk to her little by little
become her friend
and why would she call u a dork ???
I dont think any girl would call a guy who gave her gifts a dork.. unless u like stalk her or something
2006-12-31 04:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur afraid and wont talk to her then she will never go out with u!! al least try talking to her but dont give hr gifts unless it christmas or her birthday! a girl isnt going to like u because of what u give her, she will like u cause of how sweet u r and charming or funny or smart or anything else! u have to give it a shot! u will never know if she likes u until u try! Good Luck!
2006-12-31 04:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by smarthotchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her and if she calls you a dork than shes not the right girl for you, when girls get gifts from people she dosen't know that is well sweet but a little weird... i'm sure your a really nice guy and i hope it works out for you
2006-12-31 04:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence and go up to her and tell her how you feel and Dont give her gifts... you want her to like you for who you are not for what you can give her!!! Best of luck to you :D
2006-12-31 04:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and ask her to go out with u if she says no it is ok there are a lot of girls in the world
2006-12-31 04:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by KimberlyAnne. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋