we've been going out for abour 3 months and i really like she's the first girl that im actully taking her seriously but i dont think she knows that .
2006-12-30 20:01:09 · 18 answers · asked by Victor JG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is the relationship one sided? Are you intimate? Has she agreed to be your girlfriend or just friends?
What do you expect of your 'relationship' at this point? if all is going well, let it be as is sometimes if you rock the boat, it messes things up. Some people take months before they establish a sound relationship. After 3 months you should be able to talk with her on a closer level don't you think?
A friend once told me he dates someone for 6 months, within that time period you should know if the 'friendship' should turn into a relationship.
Why ruin a friendship when you know a relationship will not work out.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 20:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and be supportive, tell her how much you care about her and share how your feeling with her, random flowers and chocolates for mo reason are always a hit and just being open with her and sharing your emotions is a big part of it, alot of relationships are destroyed from lack of communication so the more you communicate and the more honest you are with each other the more likely the relationship is to work.
2016-05-22 23:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there you go. Tell her that you feel that way. She's not psychic and she can't just guess what you're feeling. Tell her that you're serious about the relationship and if she's not feelin' that same way then maybe you should let her go and look for someone who is as serious about you as you are about them. Everyone deserves to be taken seriously.
2006-12-30 20:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Why don't you express you love to her. If she love you and if she is your sweetheart in the t rue sense of the world, she will respond in a positive way. You should be kind to her. You should ask he to dine with you and during the dinner you speak out your feelings of love and emotion in a serious manner. She will perfectly understand and will respond you in a positive way. Good Luck.
2006-12-30 20:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i think that you should take her on a big trip, somewhere romantic. like for example, take her to a hot spring, buy her a sexy bikini and maybe make out. in this way she can see that you are willing to spend money on her for enjoyment and that you truly love this baby. i guess she is hot... :) dont worry, if you cant do that in any reason, try to go to a sauna (try a private one) and there (usually people go naked) were swimsuits (for skinny, hot ,sexy girls showing the body is very pretty, guys there might go oh my god that guy is totally luckyy to be with this hotty!) and then spend your night together all hot with your sexy looking girl!!
2006-12-30 20:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Please Tell Her! I am that girl...ay. I got myself into trouble thinking that the guy I've been seeing was not exclusive with me when he really truly was. I think it hurt his feelings big time when I said, " I didn't know you considered me your girlfriend ?" Tell her, trust me. If you are spending a lot of time together and being lovey, it's what she'll want to hear. She's probably been wondering too! :)
2006-12-30 20:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is next time you out for a meal take the salt and pepper shakers and put them next to each other and tell her this is how I want us to be. Then ask her to put the salt and pepper shakers together as close as she thinks she is to you. If she puts them rigth next to each other, then No worrys. If she puts them really far apart , well time to move on :)
Good Luck!
2006-12-30 20:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants out of the relationship... That way you know whether she's serious or not and then take it from there!!!
2006-12-30 20:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. You could tell her.
If you don't feel that bold or are afraid it will scare her off, ask her where she thinks this is going. That way you will know where she stands without telling her something she may not be ready to hear.
2006-12-30 20:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by musselsfrmtheshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know. tell her how much you love her and try to see what she thinks about taking your relationship a step further. in my opinion, relationships should still be fun and not totally trying to go by what seems really laid out, like as rules or anything. sorry if that didn't make sense.
just be yourself, let her be herself, and be yourSELVES. :)
2006-12-30 20:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋