I noticed girls i been dating always say to me at one point, that they been hit on by guys. I dont really know if its just common or some kind of test they asking a guy. How should one react to this?
2006-12-30 18:44:51 · 29 answers · asked by Luck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
React naturally, don't pretend to be jealous or pretend to not be jealous.
2006-12-30 18:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe try asking HER what HER reaction was when some guy was all drooling over her and stuff!! Ask her, "Oh yeah? What did YOU do about it?"....wait for her answer, and you'll catch her in a lie about half the time, because mostly, girls will say that as a test to see what YOUR reaction is.
Put it back on her, though, just to see where she's at. Maybe she's the type who likes the attention...but don't think it's all cute and stuff...she may be 'fishing' for someone else to come along and like the 'bait' that they are, she'll bound to find someone who is more willing to make more drama out of these kinds of situations than your willing to express!!
Just be careful, though...these kinds of girls can be dangerous to your health and heart!! LOL!
Don't go pulling any punches with these so-called guys who supposedly hit on your girl, just take it calm, and see HER reaction, after you ask her how SHE reacted or what she did!!
2006-12-30 18:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off.. Girls get hit on all the time. If the guy doesn't know she's with you, the take it with a grain of salt. Also, if she responds to being hit on by only telling you that she's being hit on, then there's no reason to be jealous. So, don't do anything. Just shrug it off.
Second.. If she's being hit on by some guy that knows she's with you, we've got ourselves a problem. This is blatant disrespect on his part and it should be dealt with swiftly, preferably with brass knuckles or a broken beer bottle.
2006-12-30 18:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by owensb01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends. Do you ever tell the girls that you're dating that you are being hit on? Maybe they are trying to go tick for tack and think you are telling them that to make them feel threatened. If you don't do this to girls that you are dating, they may be trying to make you feel threatened that someone else is trying to get next to them so you always feel that you have to be up on your game to keep ahead of the competition.
2006-12-30 18:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I've been known to say this one myself to guys that I'm seeing........it's not only true for some girls who do it, but others will tell you in hopes of getitng your reaction. We want to see if the guy that we're dating will show any signs of jealousy or concern. It's a small harmless test to see if the guy even cares at all about us.
2006-12-30 18:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having such stupid conversations??? Can't you find an interesting girl??? Hit on??? Some guy gave it a shot--so what. Didn't you ever give it a try? React??? What reaction??? Either you find an interesting girl or you ignore the statement and walk on. How old are you??? Are you dating kids???
2006-12-30 18:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-28 19:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In hopes that you're not the type of guy to do something like that you need to assure her that she don't need to compare you with any of her last boyfriends because you don't operate like that. Most girls are probably trying to feel you out to see how you respond to make sure that they aren't dealing with the same thing all over again.
2006-12-30 18:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont react. Everyone gets hit on someone, sometimes.
2006-12-30 18:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly, it offends me when I get hit on. I'm 14 years old and there's this old guy that's like 60 or so and he hits on me. I hate it because I'm 14 and 5'10". All legs. So guys find me REALLY attractive and start hitting on me.
2006-12-30 18:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's no test. it's just bragging, although it's nothing to brag about, as any dateable girl is hit on lots of times. the best gf i ever had got hit on several times *a day* and i didn't know it (i was very young) until i saw it -- she didn't tell me. that's class. look for it.
2006-12-30 18:54:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋